I am an 19 year old guy in the UK who has been doing this material on and off for just under a year but started taking it seriously in the last month.

My problem is that I will be making HUGE improvements but one thing I keep getting not just with pick up but overall is that I'll be doing really well then many people will be against me or a group of people will be angry/ having a joke at my expense and I crumble, then it's back to square one.

I have a feeling that I know what it is. I think it's just that with the sudden change in attitude people don't accept it to them I'm still the 'pushover' so they try to maintain that more and more aggressively. And I also believe that I'm still basing too much of my mood on external things thus not helping me either.

I WOULD LIKE YOUR VIEW on this please to see if you can present any new information and and advice you have on this?


(Bare in mind most of these people are insecure themselves who I'm talking about)

Britton.

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Welcome to the Lions' pit

The best thing you can do is just take things in stride, if a girls like are you looking at my boobs, be like "yes i am, its very nice cleavage"

Be shameless, then no one can shame you, and if someones being a dick, it might be them AMOGing you, so just AMOG them back and control the social situation so your the alfa mail.

Also one thing iv noticed that i have a problem with, with my game, is that ill also being doing really good with girls then ill think, "maby its not the PUA stuff thats making me good maby im now just talking to girls and being calm around them which makes them care about me" so i tamper off the PUA stuff and try to just be "myself" and then things fall to shit, and im harshly reminded that girls dont care about you
Its not your personality that intrest them, its game, its all game, thats the only thing that makes them care and the only reason that there intrested, and the better your game the more they care, its the harsh truth of women

The best thing you can do when people are taking the piss is just to ignore them, people do that to get a reaction from you, so when they dont get a reaction from you, or you just look them dead in the eyes, look away and shake your head, they will get even more pissed off, but others will realise that you are the 'alpha' and so will respect you more.

And girls dont just like 'game' and not your personality, part of the point of the game is that over time you incorporate it into your personality, so that you arent running game on a girl, but instead your just being yourself, because that cool, funny, intelligent guy that women love it just you, not some front that your putting on

Well there are the various views of yourself to consider. A part of you knows how people view you and sense that has changed that part of you has changed as well. We fear change, dont want it. So maybe it takes some time for that to settle into your head. Hey this is me, I know what I am doing. I am taking the lead in a convo. I am putting out vibe. I am paying more attention then other man right now. So this is the feeling I get sometimes.

I want my reward, right away.. But it takes time. Just my take on the feelings behind some of those thoughts.

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Don't forget the ones, that helped make me, the man I like becoming!