Hey all!

So I met this girl through a friend two weeks ago. First night went really good. I got a nice dhv introduction and we really hit it of. Later we went to a club and I managed to isolate and start escalating my game. We danced, she bought me a drink (ups 5Q game) and I used 3-4 negs (totally hooked on push&pull), got some more dhv since I knew alot of people in that club, and some kino. When I think back I prolly didn't build enough sexual tension. Anyhow, all goes great and I start intensing my game to build up to a kiss but since I'm pretty drunk by this time I go too fast and she neglects, tho by putting her finger on my mouth. So I playfully bit her finger and we both start laughing for a bit (I guessed I need more comfort).

Later on some AFC-shit kicks in and I ask her why she didn't wanna kiss me, since I got all the signs etc. She explains that she is attracted to me but don't kiss guys in a club/when she's drunk. She asks me if I wanna have a drink with her another time and I say I gotta check my calendar. Haha obviously a joke but I #close and we settle with talking next week.

We text some in the week and decide to meet up next weekend (since I had a crazy busy week at work). We go for some drinks again, everything is going really good until her drunk friend comes along and cockblocks me and I decide to hang with my other friends for a bit. I tried to befriend her friend but she was obv. drunk and just annoying. She tells me she's gonna call me in a bit and walks away with her friend. I don't hear from her until like 2 hours later when she's on her way home. MEANWHILE in the club I've been drinking shots/drinks/beers with friends.

Anyway, once again the fucking AFC kicks in (seems to happen when I'm getting pretty drunk) and I say I'm gonna take a cab to meet her. She thinks I'm joking and are all like "yeah sure, come to x". I grab a cab and goes over there only to find she's not there so I call her. She's saying that she's still going home, alone. I ask were she is SPAM and start walking towards her. At this point I'm pretty onward going (and thinking back, this is when I started to creep her out). I'm trying to convince her but she's already decided and this shit is hard over the phone. Anyway, she said "stop this, you are starting to creep me out". So I stop, say I'm really sorry if I creeped her out, and grab a taxi to go home.

Next day I text her " Hey Sorry if I creeped you out yd." and since then I haven't contacted her. It's been 3 days and I'm just wondering if I can try and repair the trust with her in some way without beeing too forward or just skip it.

Long text lol, hope you didn't find it too hard to read.

Edit: Typo

I'm new to all of this, maybe newer than you, but it seems to me like you already know mostly where things went wrong. It sounds like getting too drunk was your biggest problem. Your game sounds pretty sharp until you've had too many and start feeling insecure. If drinking less isn't an option, you might look into developing your inner game so that you can loosen the AFC's grip on you at its source.

From a fellow new guy, welcome to the forum!

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Yeah, you're probably right mate. Gotta work on inner game and stop drinking so much alcohol. Thanks for the tips mate!

But does anyone have a comment on how/if I can solve this awkward situation?