Before I go into the story, I thought I would preface it by saying that I don't have a deep knowledge of PUA secrets. I came to the community after a friend suggested I read The Game after I told him about how I hadn't had sex in 9 months. I read about half way through the book and decided to take the general principles and create a routine that would hopefully work for me.

I am a college student at one of the biggest party schools in the country, and after my acne cleared up and I lost a good amount of weight late in high school, I found that making out with girls at parties was very easy at a party school. What was not easy for me was getting passed that. The social awkwardness around girls that being fat with acne had created didn't go away when my unattractiveness did. So I came up with a routine that I tried for the first time this Halloween weekend, and it put an end to my sex slump.

(I was pretty drunk, so the details aren't perfect)
Early in the night didn't go so well for me. As I still am a complete beginner with no real openers, I mostly just attempted to go to any group that contained at least one cute girl, and someone I knew so I could have a reason to enter the group. After about an hour of failure, I noticed girls started to migrate outside where the DJ was playing music. Once a good amount of the girls had made their way to the dance floor, the guys soon followed suit. For those of you who are unaware what dancing in college is, it is essentially a dry hump orgy to music. It is also where the vast majority of my kiss closes occur, because it just seems to happen naturally with the sexuality of the dancing. I entered the fray and after a while of awkward solo dancing around some of my friends, I started to ask cute girls I saw to dance (I realize it is not the most subtle of approaches, but most good looking girls were on the dance floor at this point, where it was to loud to start up a conversation.) After dancing with a couple of girls, I decided to go inside and take a break when I got into a conversation with two cute girls, one blonde and one brunette. After a couple minutes of talking, I did something that I normally wouldn't do, which was to ask both of the girls if either of them would like to dance. It was a spur of the moment thing, but since both of the girls were about the same level of attractiveness and I couldn't chose which one I wanted, I decided why not ask both. I immediately regretted saying it, but to my suprise, the blonde giggled and encouraged her friend to dance with me (it also seemed to have the added effect of not showing the brunette my initial interest in her, because I didn't specifically chose to ask her to dance). The brunette seemed a bit reluctant, but eventually she took my hand and I led her to the dance floor. After around 5 minutes of dancing, she turned around and smiled at me, and leaned in to try to kiss me. I decided it was time to try my new routine. As she leaned in farther I stopped her and leaned away. She had a look of half sadness, and half disbelief. I told her that I didn't know anything about her yet, and then told her we should go to the back of the party and talk, at first she interrupted me and told me I didn't have to make an excuse to make her feel better about getting rejected, then when I was finally able to get my whole statement in over the loud music she looked confused, and skeptical but agreed to go find a seat away from the main part of the party and talk with me. I told her to tell me about herself and i listened. We talked for awhile, mostly her telling me about herself, with me chiming in mostly to gently tease her and be funny. After about 10 minutes, we finally made out, and for a while after we switched between talking, and making out when we didn't have anything to say. I mostly just tried to get her to tell me about herself, as I was trying to convey that I was slowly warming up to her, and that I was interested in her personality, not her looks. It helped that she actually was an interesting girl. Eventually she realized she had lost her friends, and I offered to walk her home. We walked holding hands for awhile before she asked me where I lived. She told me that I could walk with her until a certain point, but not too far as she didn't want me to have too long of a walk, as my house was in the opposite direction. I told her that I wanted to make sure she would get home safe. Once we reached her house, we made out on the couch for awhile, and when things started to escalate, I asked her if she wanted to move into her room so her roommates wouldn't walk in on us, and then I finally put my 9 month slump to an end.

And that's my story. I'd enjoy any comments anyone has on how to improve the routine, or things in general I could have done differently.

Not really gaming, but at least you kept your frame when she wanted to kiss you, good job.

No gaming? I disagree. That's big game right there. Where everything perfectly fits. From good approaching, to taking her to dance (escalation), then rejecting a kiss (playing hard to get + gaining trust, showing he's not a creep that looks for the first opportunity to jump on her) to isolating and getting away from her friends, building comfort and similarity there and keeping her long enough interested and finally making out after all that anticipation. Later he showed her dominant and protective attitude following her home and wanting "to make sure she gets home safe" chicks dig that attitude. Later on the couch she was so turned on and emotionally attached to this motherfucker she wanted it more than him.

All played nonchalantly. For a guy who hasn't fucked in 9 months it's underestimation to say you can keep your cool.

+ congrats on a spending-free lay, you never mentioned you bought her a drink or anything else so I assume you didn't invest anything but time.

Good job and good luck in future, nice read.

I know it really wasn't completely gaming, all I have learned about so far is from what I read in the first half of The Game, and other than applying the basic principles to my own idea, I didn't really use anything else I had read about. It was my first sarge and my game plan was simple. 1. Reject the first girl that tries to makeout with me 2. Tell her its because I don't know her yet, and that we should go talk at the back of the party. It was an idea that I hoped would bridge the gap between making out with a girl, and having sex with her, since I can seem to get to making out naturally, but could never transition it into having sex with the girl. Other than that I was simply winging it. I mostly posted this as a learning experience hoping to get some comments on what I could have done better, so if you have any ideas of what I could have improved on please share them Thanks man, glad you enjoyed it. If you have any feedback on things I could have done better on it would be much appreciated.

I hate to bump, but I was really hoping I could get some feedback on what I could have done differently, as I feel my success was heavily based on beginners luck/easiness to get layed at a party college on halloween weekend. Thanks.

Hi illogical, I'm new to the game (kind of), so obviously you don't have to believe anything I say, or take it as good advice. But here's some advice nonetheless.

In a way swagstar is right, there wasn't a lot of game there, but splican makes some good points.

Here's my feedback anyway. Early in the night was never going to go well for you man, you were approaching groups still with a sense of approach anxiety, i mean you made sure you had friends there, thats AFC stuff man. If you have a routine, use it. Work the 3 second rule, approach before you think about it, even two sets of girls who you don't know (which correct me if I'm wrong, is how you starting your set for the night that finished in your !close). Run your routines and go from there, you can only get better. My sticking point is continuing after openers, but I'm getting better through constant opening and sarging.

Here's a tip for the dancefloor too, a theory from 60 years of challenge (someone correct me if thats not his correct name) is that the more tension you create the better. So when you're on a dancefloor, increase tension with the girls dancing around you, look at a cute girl, and when you make eye contact, KEEP LOOKING. This does work.

Anyway, after you ran the two set, you did really well. Maybe you should have had a target, but by asking in general if they wanted to dance, like you said may have worked because your eventual target felt specific disinterest.

After that, I can't fault you. You played things very well. Obviously you got away without using too much game, negs and such, but try implement them in more in any case.

This is a good close man, I enjoyed reading it. You've given me some good things to think about.

Borto

Hi illogical, I'm new to the game (kind of), so obviously you don't have to believe anything I say, or take it as good advice. But here's some advice nonetheless.

In a way swagstar is right, there wasn't a lot of game there, but splican makes some good points.

Here's my feedback anyway. Early in the night was never going to go well for you man, you were approaching groups still with a sense of approach anxiety, i mean you made sure you had friends there, thats AFC stuff man. If you have a routine, use it. Work the 3 second rule, approach before you think about it, even two sets of girls who you don't know (which correct me if I'm wrong, is how you starting your set for the night that finished in your !close). Run your routines and go from there, you can only get better. My sticking point is continuing after openers, but I'm getting better through constant opening and sarging.

Here's a tip for the dancefloor too, a theory from 60 years of challenge (someone correct me if thats not his correct name) is that the more tension you create the better. So when you're on a dancefloor, increase tension with the girls dancing around you, look at a cute girl, and when you make eye contact, KEEP LOOKING. This does work.

Anyway, after you ran the two set, you did really well. Maybe you should have had a target, but by asking in general if they wanted to dance, like you said may have worked because your eventual target felt specific disinterest.

After that, I can't fault you. You played things very well. Obviously you got away without using too much game, negs and such, but try implement them in more in any case.

This is a good close man, I enjoyed reading it. You've given me some good things to think about.

Borto

I'll keep those tips in mind, thanks.