I'm going to go on a limb here, and say maybe, just maybe. Words from an Indian might help?

Anywho, gentlemen. I'm Indian, and I've dated females of other races. I never found me being Indian a limiting factor, I just came off as more exotic especially since I'm much more confident and outgoing than other Indian males that I've met.

You being Indian isn't a limiting factor, get rid of the attitude of "I can't because I'm Indian" and go with an attitude of "I goddamn CAN"

As to not dating Indian woman, it's something I can understand, from my own experience especially from a younger age, they were all kind of creepy. (note this is my reason as to why I have a slight bias against them)

XkenX and everyone on this board who has helped me, I owe it to you guys, I really do.

Even the guy who made Indian jokes, look, I am sorry for going off on you. It was really uncharacteristic of me.

I have looked in the mirror and seen that hey I want to be this casanova but I am nothing close to it. I need to make improvements and I need to make them fast because I turned 19 nearly a month ago, pretty soon I will be 20 and life flies by. I have started eating healthier, I work out more and more, I have even increased my max bench press, I am looking at transfer requirements for college, I have started just talking to more random people, basically, I have taken the path towards improving though many improvements are to be made.

Now I understand some of you wanted to know why I will not date an Indian woman and I will tell you why right now.

1. There are so many different types of women out there I love (Latinas and mixed women especially), why not give them a chance and get the chance to be with them? And I honestly just do not see the appeal in most Indian women, though there are pretty ones out there I will not even date them and I tell you why.

2. I hate a lot of parts of Indian culture, having lived through most of them. My Indian family restricted me from enjoying life as a teenager and most of my teens are in ruins because of my parents strictness coupled in with bad parenting decisions. I have a different view on life that most Indian girls would not agree with (and even if they did I would not date them, I tell you why).

3. Having lived in the deep south and having visited so many places, I notice that the few Indian girls I have met have fit into TWO categories:

A. FOB kind who I will not associate with, hard to associate with, carry their own traditional ways which I do not like.
B. Americanized kind who will date all kinds of guys but Indian guys and will bash Indian men to no ends.

4. I have had a really bad experience with the few Indian women I have met, a really bad one.

5. I really dislike the Indian culture, I always found myself loving other cultures even more than my own and the idea of marrying and dating a girl from a different culture sounds interesting to me.

6. It feels that if I date an Indian girl, I have truly never left home. When I do live on my own, if I date an Indian girl it will feel that I am back home with mom and dad.[/b]

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I can relate to this.

My ... family restricted me from enjoying life as a teenager and most of my teens are in ruins because of my parents strictness ...

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"don't listen to this creeper reputation bullshit, girls like to get hit on / get attention, don't be afraid to do so, girls forgive advances, but they NEVER FORGIVE PUSSIES" - from pumpington

You bash the bitches back, don't take shit from them.
And I can also relate to the teenage thing.

Spielberg ran away from his jewish heritage until he made Schindler's List. Probably the most significant holocaust film ever made, behind the documentary footage used during the Nuremberg trials. After he accepted his identity he did something great.

One day you will accept your identity as an indian man with indian traditions. You will become great. Get out of the deep south as quickly as possible. You will remain a racist if you stay there.

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-yawns-

nope not really, you can be an American and a normal human being without shoving your heritage in everyone's face

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oh ya

hay guys, I wanna know something, today I approached this girl, told her I have to run somewhere real quick and if she can watch my stuff, she did, I came back and she was there, we talked, towards the end I said "hope to see you again"

I KNOW it was a bad bad move, but how big of a killer?

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post unrelated questions in a new thread.

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ya but I am sure these guys have had enough of my threads, why not save them the annoyance eh?

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In my opinion, should've went for the number.

Yo, Paramount!
I've read some things here that I can't allow anyone to say.

I am partial Indian too, and I really do not know why you're... ashamed (?) of being Indian.
Personally I, just like you, don't want to date Indian women. They remind me too much of my family/sisters etc, so I just don't get attracted towards them.
So what I just said is that I only want other kinds of women, and that I've accomplished.
Most women like the tan and originality of Indian men, because you stick out in countries beside India. Ofcourse make sure you always stand out, wear stylish clothes and have a good haircut, preferably one that not many men have.

As for the recent approach: I don't know why you said it was a bad move, because it was a good one!
That girl NOW knows that you want to see her again, for else she wouldn't. Also, if you find yourself alpha male enough, you should be happy to improve the self-esteem of the girl, or her feeling wanted. (expect if she's really fkcing hot)
I love to give compliments to HB's under an 8 that I find attractive (some HB7's just got things that HB10's don't have), or just look at them with amazement. I really don't know if all girls like it, but I know I like it when some random girl just keeps looking at you/smiles/gives you a compliment. It doesn't happen too often, but when it does it always brightens me. So, therefore.

And I don't sarge (direct) in my university or places where I am alot, because when you get blown out, you will see that girl or those girls a lot of other times, where you really don't know what to say to her, because she could act as bitchy as before, or suddenly changed into a supersweet girl.
Nobody knows.

Your virtual yawn is pretty disrespectful. That's one of the reasons why people make fun of you. Don't belittle my opinion just because you don't agree with it. Thats rude, and it won't help you make friends or grow as a person.

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maybe this question has been answered already or maybe it hasn't but if it has then please quote me to the link on this thread


I always wondered this. I have seen some Indian guys with that natural tan and some with the desired olive skin and they all seem bright and intelligent. Why is it that they have such a bad reputation?

I mean all over the internet, Indian males are the butt of nearly every single joke when it comes to dating. Why is that? Any ideas or real life experiences with this topic?

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To be honest i have seen more indian men with white women than indian girls with white men. I am half japanese and have only been with white women. You can clearly see i am not full white but I think girls dig it if you are different.
As long as you are cool it doesn't matter what race you are.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lj5D2i2O9D0

Check this video out by Kong from SimplePickUp. It looks like a uni-project kind of thing,.but enjoy! (and hope this helps)

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