Hi everyone,this is my first post.I joined this forum not because I am bad at approaching etc,I just wanted to put another lever on my game.My problem is this...I meet a girl,do the approach,make her laught,and everything and sometimes she is really interested,sometimes she is a little.When she is only a little interested,I go on for some more attraction,etc,and I get her to go out.The problem is that when she is still a challenge,when she doesn't say yes,I'm going for her,but as soon as a girl says Yes,I loose any interest in beeing with her,date her,even go out with her.Does anyone have this problem,too?
Sorry for my english.

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-don't hate the player,hate the game.

Everyone wants a challange, no one likes something that comes easy, even girls.
I get your point a little bit, I dont like easy girls, but its not the biggest deal and it is not such a turn off that I loose my interest because of it, if you know what type of girls you're after why would you loose interest if she is easy? It is less gaming for you because she was obviously interested in you too. So either you go for any girl you get, or you are scared of taking that akward next meeting.

I dont think it has anything with being to easy.

I felt the exact feeling once, I had this cute girl, amazing dancer, probably good in bed too. She was funny, flirty and everthing. I macked her easy, it only took 1 minut to get it in, as soon as I left to talk/dance with another girl, she pushed this girl away and grabbed me, that was not the problem, for me that is sexy, maybe a little disrespectful, but still very sexy because she marked her spot. Then she dances with me and then tell me, you can go to her if you want to. When she said that she lost my interest, I dont like that she is jealous when we only met like 5 minutes earlier.. That is a good reason to loose interest over, not by thinking shes to easy.

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There are 2 kinds of people when you boil it all down, you got your talkers and you got your doers.
Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.

Tnx for you response.Nice one with the dancing lady!

sometimes it isn't just with the easy girls,sometimes I have to try really hard,it takes more time,like a month,or something like and,and as soon as she shows interest,and that I can have her attention,time,that kills my interest in her..

it looks like it's true that the game is better than a catch.

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-don't hate the player,hate the game.

The game is fun, when you get a catch.
And thats why were in it?

When you feel this again, try to push it further, just keep on going.
There are many reasons why we do this, but two of them is to either get a girlfriend, or to get laid, you're gonna have to stick in there and make one of them happen.
Interest some times takes a while, at first it's kind of more an attraction, get to know the real lady your talking to, but before you do this, ask yourself what do I want in a women? How should she be like? And again, when you think this dont go over the top ,just have a foundation about how your girl should be like. That makes it more interesting to go out and meet women and to talk to them.

Learn about body language too, girls express alot of body language because they almost always speak with emotions. Its up to you to make it more interesting, not up to them!

I hope that helps a little bit!

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There are 2 kinds of people when you boil it all down, you got your talkers and you got your doers.
Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.

Sounds like a form of a fear of intimacy. It could possibly result from an insecurity (i.e. you're subconsciously not sure you have what it takes when it gets down to it) or you're worried about practical implications too much or maybe something else.

I think most guys have this to some degree.