I'm not sure that online dating counts as a field. But anyway I've been on a bit of a tear lately and decided to give some input back into the community.

A quick back story. I finished school at the ripe age of 21 and already have a job making lots of money. Yet I found that I was having a hard time finding women. My game was almost non-existent. I started to research PUA methods as I did in the past with Mystery.

I've been using POF for a few days. I had no luck with anything, hardly any replies until today. I ran into a site that said to make statements in conversations instead of interview type questions. In fact, you hardly have to ask any questions at all. Most questions can be just reworded into a statement. Try it out.

I got three number closes today. One of which asked me to hang out. All three actually asked me to send them a picture! I feel like I must be doing something right! And of course I had to play with them a little for them to get a picture. Can't just give in right away. Would love to discuss more with everyone.

Hi Resus, damn right. Interview type questions tend to fall flat. What are your opening emails like? What approach do you use?

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Well what I've been doing lately, which is strictly by trial and error was reading their profile first.

Most of the time I'm trying to find something they mention about goals or that they don't play games and make a comment on that, and then a comment of how I'm the same way. If you just sort of make comments involving a topic on their about me, a conversation usually gets started.

I actually have some ammo though. If they say "I want a guy with goals because I am going to do ____". I'll message first saying "Goals are not just important, but a necessity. Its amazing how many people I meet that are just cruising along with life. I met my huge goals for my career about a year ago when I finished college. I can only imagine ___ is just as hard"

Other times Ill merge two subjects they talked about in one opener. In statement format I'll just combine two sentences together. Not even beat around the bush.

Anything else that people are doing that works?

I've actually had a lot of girls asking me for a picture of me smiling. Maybe I should get on that.

Personally I tend to do away with asking questions and make some kind of bold statement. I always try to make it 'cocky/funny' as david Deangelo would say.

Next time try something like; 'hey, I notice you have lots of hobbies but cooking isn't listed. I need a woman who can cook for her man, how quick can you learn? '

I always find this approach works for me. If one girl does get uppity just move on to the next.

Hope this helps

BT

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