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PostPosted: Mon Nov 07, 2011 7:51 am 
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So i met this girl, who seems to be some what interested in me to the point where shes willing to give me a chance. We have mutual friends, and went to dinner as a group, after it was just me and her walking, i asked her if shed like to go to dinner just us next weekend.

She response was possibly, but with a positive tone. I took that as her playing hard to get, turns out she told my friend she would go if i call her about it later in the week, so i guess i was right. or she actually ment possibly at that point in time.

Obviously i want her come out of this date thinking "id like to go out with him again"

Its dinner, theres only so much i can do "creative".

What are the keys to making a dinner date go extremely well?

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 07, 2011 8:07 am 
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So i met this girl, who seems to be some what interested in me to the point where shes willing to give me a chance. We have mutual friends, and went to dinner as a group, after it was just me and her walking, i asked her if shed like to go to dinner just us next weekend.

She response was possibly, but with a positive tone. I took that as her playing hard to get, turns out she told my friend she would go if i call her about it later in the week, so i guess i was right. or she actually ment possibly at that point in time.

Obviously i want her come out of this date thinking "id like to go out with him again"

Its dinner, theres only so much i can do "creative".

What are the keys to making a dinner date go extremely well?
Or are you willing to give her a chance?


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 07, 2011 3:58 pm 
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MCare is saying your frame is all wrong. You are already coming off as needy and you haven't even gone on the date yet.

Some Basics:

On the whole, dinner's make terrible first dates unless you plan on going someplace unique (like taking her to try sushi for the first time, for example). Also, try and find a place that you can sit next to her rather than across from her. That way you can be physically closer to her. Avoid asking or answering interview-style questions or talking about work, conspiracies, politics or religion.

Here's a good guide on fluff talk:
"Improv / Banter" post by Z
http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php? ... rov-Banter

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 08, 2011 6:12 am 
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True i do need to reframe that, I have no problems of framing when gaming, im not used to the whole dating scene, I think im just gonna try to do something instead of dinner because that is an awful date, ill probably try ice skating or something

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