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PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 3:48 am 
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wow, okay so I've never really rated any woman as an HB10. Usually I'm very picky and conservative with the rating scale because I often see girls or pictures of girls where the guy in the equation has rated them at a 9.5 or 10 when she'd be lucky to pull an 8 in my books. In fact, I find myself saying when I'm observing a room of girls "Okay she's a 7, she's an 8, she's a 7.5" but I don't believe I've ever seen an HB worthy of a 10 quite simply because 10 is the absolute highest score, and with the highest score comes the highest standards. If a woman is going to be an HB10 in my books, she better have an incredible personality that compliments one of the most smoking hot bods I've ever laid my eyes upon, period.

Anyways, I've seen this girl around campus that has the looks of an HB10. Quite frankly, she is one of the best looking girls I've ever seen. But a few days ago, I was outside of my dorm smoking a cig while it was raining (I was under the ceiling structure outside, sitting on a picnic table) when I saw her walking in front of me to the next dorm over. I had seen her a few times around campus, either walking to/from class or with her sorority sisters at the food court, but I never really stopped to think about gaming her or even opening her, I just prematurely labeled her as a frat-rat because about 90% of the girls in sororities here play the frat boys into getting them alcohol and whatnot. It wasn't until I noticed she lived in the next dorm over did I start thinking about gaming her.

But now I'm afraid to, I feel completely AFC right now and I feel like I'm back at square one with becoming a PUA. Normally I wouldn't hesitate as much as I am now to open a set of HB7s or HB8s because they're easier to approach than rediculously good looking women. But this girl is an HB10, it seems near impossible to approach a girl that looks that damn good (especially since I'm no where near a 10 on a Hot-Guy scale if there was one).

Fuck me.

Here I am, being the guy I was two years ago in highschool; afraid to approach girls... here I am unable to listen to my own advice of not putting pussy on a pedistal... here I am, back at square one.

I need you guys right now, I need advice. I can't fuck this up, she's an HB10.

CLz


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 4:39 am 
Crazy, it's a spot that all of us end up in at one point or another. You just need a simple reframe right now. Remember, she's JUST another human being. In fact, at this point, she's nothing more than an annoying little sister.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 8:46 am 
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ya man, real good looking women can be intimidating. what i do if i find myself hesitant or doubtful when I'm about to approach and cant reframe on the spot in my head, is just go for broke, walk up, and be myself. It doesnt always get the result intended, but its better then not trying at all.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 11:10 am 
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Yeah.. I also think you should reframe your mind set. I dont think you should feel nervous because your appearance isnt a 10, as many PUAs say, girls tend to be attracted to guys who have the personality traits they are seeking (the alpha male style) rather than the appearance like us guys. Also, just look at it as another practice, and act as if you dont care what the results turn out to be. If you show the right body language accompanied by the right words (c & f .. etc), im quite positive that you can do well. And in the worst case scenario, if it doesnt turn out well... Half the world's population are girls, and out of the many females out there, Im sure there will be another HB10 that you will come across.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 1:12 pm 
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Humans are instinctively nice. Unless she is just having a horrible day she's not going to tell you to f*ck off or anything. Just start a conversation and see where it goes. Even if she never becomes your girlfriend, you might still gain a friend. And, everyone knows hot girls have hot friends.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 1:59 am 
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haha i agree van! hot girls do have hot friends!


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