Are you ready for help with your one-itis? Hold on, first before I get to that let me tell you about my experience with one-itis.

She was beautiful, she lived in my home-town and she listened to me. For a week. I was convinced she would be mine. Then I asked her to a dance. Uh-oh she had a BF. I was crushed. I still didn't care though. I kept on going, any way possible. At this point I stumbled upon PUA. I had just feverishly read the game. Amazing. I never even knew this stuff existed. I had to apply this knowledge to getting her. Yah, I realized I had one-itis. I had every symptom. I then proceeded to waste a year of my life stubbornly not listening to anyone out there about this. I was determined to blaze my own path through the no mans land called one-itis. Friends, family, randoms that happened to hear my story, I told them all. They were just haters in my eyes. They didn't understand how I felt. I did everything in my power to get her, freeze-outs, indirect, direct, whatever I thought would get the job done. One year later to the day. There she is in my sights. It's the dance I invited her to a year ago. I go up to talk to her. I say "hi". No response. "HI". She turns says "hi" and walks off. I hang my head in shame. There was this sinking feeling in my heart. It felt more like a lead weight. A few weeks later I finally gave into real reason and decided it was over. I never wanted to have that feeling again. And I never want anyone else to feel that way either.

Are you surprised by my story? Did you expect some kind of success story? Well it is a success story. Through her I learned tons of stuff about social intelligence and how to game. I made countless improvements to my life in other areas. And I learned a very important life lesson, how to move on from heart break(everyone has been there before). I had never truly been rejected before, and I had never misread someone so completely. I rarely took chances before her, especially with my heart. I then realized she was limiting my game and made a decision to change.

Also look back, the first three reasons I liked her are easily replaceable. There are more girls in my hometown, there are tons of beautiful women out there, and any polite person will listen to you. I meet people like this everyday. (except the hometown part, it is really small, that is also insignificant though)

I am sure you have your reasons too. So ask yourself, how far back do you have to look to find these positive things? How many times have you seen her since then? If 3 or more than you are at risk of having one-itis. Are these reasons findable elsewhere? Are they really unique? Are they vague idealizations? If yes you are at risk of having one-itis. Think hard about this paragraph, the human brain has a tendency to ignore what it doesn't want to hear (I know I did).

Learn from my mistakes though. I seriously wasted a large chunk of my life pursuing a pointless relationship(all those improvements could have been done faster without her). Follow these guidelines about one-itis (helpful the majority of the time).

1. If you think you have one-itis, you have one-itis.
2. If you are pursuing a girl that isn't responding back, you have one-itis.
3. If you are in the friend zone and you like her romantically, you have one-itis.
4. If you have one-itis, leave her and go game someone else. (if friends then stay friends, no reason to ruin friendship, but still go game someone else)
5. There are a lot of amazing and sexy women out there who are waiting to meet you, go get them.

It can be tough to listen to. Your feelings may tell you the complete opposite. Every few days I see someone asking the same thing on this forum. I asked that question when I first came to the forum. Here is the answer. Leave it. There are literally thousands of girls out there you could be having a better time with.

Still think you are the minority who is dealing with the symptoms but doesn't have the disease? Then leave a post explaining what is up. I will view it with an open mind. My goal is to help you find the girl (or girls:twisted:) that you are happy with.