So there's this girl at one my University social clubs.

I have no sexual interest in her, but shes a good laugh. Nice and sarcastic. In fact, she extremely funny, perhaps the funniest girl I have ever met in my life.

Anyway, now she acts like she fucking hates my guts. I invited her out to my friends party, and the next time I see her she's all hostile around me. I don't understand how I elicited this mindset from her. Maybe she thought I was trying to come on to her, I have the feeling that she may be a lesbian.

I wouldn't care, but it makes me feel really damn awkward at this club because it use to be me and her making the group laugh, but I just feel I have totally lost my cool as she either 100% ignores what I'm saying, or just kind of grunts or goes meh at everything I say leaving a horrible awkwardness looming over my head.

I'm really not sure how to befriend her again.

maybe she thought you were interested in her...try to talk to her and let her know you want to be friends....other than that, theres not much i think you can do..i mean, its her decision to be friends with you...so you gotta let her decide, i would think.

The best thing to do is to just talk about it. Explain how you miss having her as a friend. Ask her what's changed, if something you said offended her or something.

Thanks guys.

I can't help but think she will just get weirded out though if I do ask her this stuff, but maybe its the best thing to do.

In any relationship...communication is key.

It seems, in my opinion...that there was a misunderstanding somewhere.. Or maybe she is just going thru her own "problems" and seems distant. Either way, no matter what it is, your first step into figuring it out is talking. Just dont put pressure on her, or force her to talk. If she resists, either change the subject or just leave it alone. She will talk when she is ready.

I number closed this girl in front of her, and she suddenly became a hell of a lot more warm to me all of a sudden. She was amazed that I asked this girls number that I barely knew. Annoyingly I was feeling ill that night, so I had to go home before building rapport back up with her.

If it carries on the next few times with her, I will try and bring it up in a subtle way and gauge her feelings on it.