lol

no wonder the sex was horrible

you extorted her into it with the threat of dumping her if she didn't put out

lol

you even admit her being teary-eyed and afraid

i think you just set a very dangerous precedent for your sex life with this girl

your first sex was guilt/threat sex

wow, good job

next time, use attraction and game,

not threats

i'll be surprised if this girl doesn't resent you for that

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Your next steps are very critical! dont give up on her, but please DO realise that she still loves her ex. all you have to do is show her that you are a better man than he his, how? be attractive! tell her you are not waiting for her and she should talk to you when she's done with her ex. meanwhile, explore other options, other women.

Woah, awesome! You did the perfect thing, I wasnt expecting that from you, but you surprized us all! Ive been in the other guy's shoes. He probably is a pussy or something, I used to be a pussy, needy, clingy, ughhhh gross. Anyways, now dont let her go, be a man and give her many orgasms. lol.

thanks all! we are having a damn good relationship so far. She seems to be fully in love with me and never talked about her ex since our first night. Of course, i'm treating her with respect & love and i think she appreciates it.

In our second night, i asked about how she has orgasms. She showed me her little vibrator. The other day, we purchased one of those clit-massage machines (that clings onto it) and we have sex while she has it on it from then on.

no

I think thats not the role of the male, are we forgetting what we are here for? It is to protect OUR girl from any harm and from other males. You might get away with something like forcing a girl to have sex, I personally think thats not correct even if youre the one receivng pleasure, even if its a type of blackmail and the girl agrees. I think that both parts should enjoy, otherwise you can go get a simple hooker and itll be the same. Im not taking any sides on this argument, but I think none of us should forget what is the principal role of an alpha male, some of us do it for fun and with no compromise (girls included). But an alpha male is an alpha male even when there is no compromise, protecting everyone below us all the time, otherwise we're just projecting a false image of an alpha male that is not really there.

If you have to force someone to do something you want is because you dont think you're good enough to get what you want from the other person. In other words you still havent discovered your true value. An essential thing an alpha male should be aware of.