Seriously.

I have a question thats dear to me.

Should you ever stop? i.e. what are some signs they dont like you?

I thought that when you talk to them, your aim was to make them ur friend then carry on with w/e ur middle game is.

The problem I have is the awkward silence that the conversation backs into occasionally.

Should you keep blabbing? or gtfo?

Not even talking bout a club situation, just a general one, say you were in a lecture, and it hasnt started yet, a girl sits next to you, you start talking, convo falls into silence.

Honest to god, whenever it happens i am absolutely stuck and I just keep blabbing, and it eventaully goes nowhere, of course I get her number in the end, but the whole thing just feels rather bad.

Need advice

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Reality is relative. At any given moment one only knows what he can see. To master one's perception of himself he must master other's perceptions of him first.

When I get into the awkward silence moment, I point it out, I make fun of it. That's when some new topic comes across my (or her) mind. It works for me!

When I get into a silent zone I look around like I wanna leave or I'm looking for something or someone to talk to, if the girl likes you she'll try to hold your interest by asking some stupid question, if she doesn't you've already survey'd the area and know who your going to approach next. Also if you see something funny you can point it out and theres your convo

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To game at your best you have to be willing to do your worst.

1. Obviously. Babbling to much sucks.
2. Responding in short answers, looking away for exit options, in some cases not making eye contact, physically being turned away from you. Etc. You will feel it.
3. The awkward silence is only awkward because you let it be awkward. Sometimes you've got simply nothing to say. That isn't bad.

Oh and if you chat to a woman you're interested in you flirt. It doesn't have to be hardcore nightclub like flirting, but you don't have to keep it polite and politically correct. Preferably not even.

doesn't 60 years of challenge's stuff address this issue?

might be a good read.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!