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PostPosted: Wed Nov 02, 2011 9:18 am 
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I picked up two girls last week. We ended up emailing back and forth. But I overdid it with C&F and killed text. So I was figuering out a way to save the connection.

Me: Hi
Her: (No Answer)

My sales manager said one thing about handling an objection on a prospect refusal to speak. So I tried it out with her by saying this.

Girl#1:
Me: I get it, you've grown tired of my pick up lines. A guys gotta do what he has to do right, Jenny?
Her: I wasn't ignoring you, just been busy with work and stuff

Girl#2:
Me: I get it, you've grown tired of my pick up lines. A guys gotta do what he has to do right, Rena?
Her: haha are you kidding me, girls have better ones then the one you used

I just wanted to share it with those that screwed up in the Mid-Game. This one is definitely a saver![/b]


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:15 pm 
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Thanks, sometimes being real and speaking from your core self works the best :)


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 05, 2011 6:55 am 
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I don't know if it's acceptable to continue texting a chick who doesn't text back. Honestly, if she doesn't respond after a few times (2) of me trying to initiate a conversation... I continue on with my life because any way you try to save the connection it will only cause her attraction to you to plummet even more. You come off as a desperate person who doesn't get the memo she's trying to send you by ignoring your messages. The only way I try to save the connection is through face-face interaction when i happen to stumble upon her letting her know that her games don't phase me. When i see her, i act the way I normally would with her not showing that I cared about her not responding... wouldn't even mention it. Otherwise texting anything is a losing situation, unless your game is that TIGHT, at best you can make it a "possible" win. Correct me if I'm wrong, I'd like to know a solution if there is one... you could possibly get me so much more poontang.


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2011 6:15 am 
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And sometimes a girl is worth fighting for, right. Often the most direct path to our goal, is not the direct one. It is alright to loose a little only to learn from it and correct it - even with the same girl.

In any game, you will lose ground once in a while, but only losers declare a loss before the game is actually over! Don't move on before you know the game to really be over - that is just cowardly.


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2011 6:50 am 
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And sometimes a girl is worth fighting for, right. Often the most direct path to our goal, is not the direct one. It is alright to loose a little only to learn from it and correct it - even with the same girl.

In any game, you will lose ground once in a while, but only losers declare a loss before the game is actually over! Don't move on before you know the game to really be over - that is just cowardly.
If you push every interaction with every girl to the point where she has to forcefully reject you or she just ignores dozens of failed attempts on your part to communicate with her its going to start to weigh very heavily on your self esteem and this will fuck up your inner game. Why bother investing the effort etc into a girl thats already demonstrated she's not interested? sure there's a possibility of recovery, but theres a greater possibility that you could pick up a new girl in the time you spend trying to fight to win her over when most of the time shes just going to keep on rejecting.


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2011 4:32 pm 
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And sometimes a girl is worth fighting for, right. Often the most direct path to our goal, is not the direct one. It is alright to loose a little only to learn from it and correct it - even with the same girl.

In any game, you will lose ground once in a while, but only losers declare a loss before the game is actually over! Don't move on before you know the game to really be over - that is just cowardly.
No girl is worth fighting for within the first weeks of interaction, hell even months, it takes awhile to find out the true nature of someone and be able to build a strong connection with them. In this situation, why would you fight over a girl who you don't even know is even "worth" it, you barely know her. She's not being responsive, go on to the next girl, she missed out on a great opportunity. I'm not going to break my back for a girl whom I assume is amazing just because she was able to impress me in the first few interactions.

I'll fight for a girl when me and her have been to hell and back and I know she's someone I'd like to spend a lot more time with. You just don't try that hard for someone who doesn't deserve it, if I don't know who she really is, why put forth the effort? I could be putting in half the effort to someone new who could potentially be way better in every aspect than last one who left. If you fought for every girl that you talked to and got away, you must really think you can't find better. You're clearly suffering from the, I got her, I had her, now I want her back syndrome. You become deceptively attracted to her because you don't understand where you went wrong. Your attraction becomes so strong because your constantly replaying interactions to find out what happened and in the process you only focus on her good qualities. Get over her and move on.


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