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| erix5son | PostPosted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 7:37 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Oct 17, 2011 4:48 pm Posts: 28 AOL: Golo+Brdo+106 | | How to handle a girl that wants to be in contact with you non-stop.??
With it I mean that she contacts you more than once a day or recquests contacts from you by txting things like: You can call me in evening if you like to, etc...
How to reply to txt like that??
I dont want to spend too much time talking on phone / chatting since we ll get bored and I ll make myself too available while on the other hand dont want to be rude by often refusing interaction with her...
Am I too much of a nice guy?
How to find a balance between not being too nice and not being rude by not responding?
P. S.: we used to be friends with this specific girl but had sex 1 week ago.
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| Abdul-aAfc | PostPosted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 8:30 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Sun Sep 07, 2008 3:12 pm Posts: 677 Website: http://freepua.tk Location: England | | On some days give her a lot of attention then some other days just kind of ignore her. If you see her in real life, this works even better.
If you want to let her off lightly, just tell her that you are busy studying or you have a bus to catch whenever she phones you. After a while she should get the hint.
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| Max DHV | PostPosted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 8:53 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Fri May 13, 2011 11:48 pm Posts: 117 Location: Perth, Australia | | Abdul - my thoughts are that is a form of push/pull. Ideal if its a girl who is not being attentive enough, but for one who is already giving too much attention?? I think thats a bad move.
Personally I find staying attracted to these sorts of girls very tough - STAGE 5 CLINGER (The Wedding Crashers)????
Its very hard to get someone like this to just chill, and even if she does you're probably over her because of it by then anyway. I would simply ignore the contact that is inconvinient for you (texts/calls at the wrong time) and call her when it suits. She may either slowly aclimatise to your style of communication which is what you want or may be forced to sit her down and chat it out. I dont think there is any real PUA trick here and in any case, Id be surprised if your still keen on her by then anyway.
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| erix5son | PostPosted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 9:01 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Oct 17, 2011 4:48 pm Posts: 28 AOL: Golo+Brdo+106 | | have to agree.
That ammount of attention she is giving me is really getting on my nerves -.-
However I still find her cute and we are planning casual sex so I dont have intentions of letting her go...
Just wanted to know how to approach these girls. I guess I should just go natural with it... talking when Im into it and have time and drop it if I dont?
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| Max DHV | PostPosted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 10:23 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Fri May 13, 2011 11:48 pm Posts: 117 Location: Perth, Australia | | Totally. This sorta thing stems from insecurity obviously. So if you can make her feel good about herself when you are together while still maintaining the FBuddy line HOPEFULLY things will smooth out for you (or rather her).
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| debugger | PostPosted: Fri Nov 04, 2011 11:59 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:42 pm Posts: 173 | | cut any contact with her.seriously.
or use her for ego boosts. _________________ When you realize that rejection doesn`t mean shit you`ll try to find a way how to kick your own ass for being an idiot.
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| Rawn | PostPosted: Sat Nov 05, 2011 1:07 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri May 13, 2011 7:50 pm Posts: 23 Location: København | | I met a girl like that a few months ago - I just invited her over for movie and some food. I sat her down on my bed getting ready for the movie, and after a while I requested to lie down, as I was getting tired of sitting. Then it just felt right to spoon her, and from there it was easy to escalate. It was a fun night, that has repeated itself over and over again with her ever since.
Enough talk from your part imo - meet her, and do something about it.
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| erix5son | PostPosted: Sat Nov 05, 2011 3:49 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Oct 17, 2011 4:48 pm Posts: 28 AOL: Golo+Brdo+106 | | I did met her tonight and this was just unbelievable.
Girl is a horny devil.
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