Okay heres the story so far:

>Meet through a friend
>Get number
>Go on two nights out, kiss on both nights. She agrees to dinner.
>Perfect dinner date, I was a pussy and didnt close
>She asks me over to hers a few days later
>When i arrive she realises she has important uni work deadline tomorrow. She wants me to stay but she has to do it, no kino and convo doesnt go so well

Anyway since then we have been talking and i asked her out again but she flaked. I thought it was going really good but that one time i went over hers i think ruined it. What should i do?

I havent called/text her in 5 days, do i wait for her to contact me or leave it a bit and then text her to rebuild comfort, attraction and ask her out again?

you said you havent talked to her in 5 days....if neither of you are contacting eachother in that time period....give her a call and see if she wants to get together.. if not, move on to the next one...thats what I would do...someone else might have better advice tho

Yea, but i text her like 6/7 days ago asking if she wanted to go out to the cinema or a drink but she acted super flakey and didnt give me and answer. Now the week is over ive basically been focusing on other girls but id far rather be with this one girl

Then figure out whats going on dude.....She may just no longer be interested... Or she may be fuckin around with other dudes....she may just be busy with school work..If you want to be with her, you're going to have to figure out whats going on, and what she wants, and how to give it to her...if you guys aren't that close to begin with....you not talking to her for a week is telling her you're not interested..Her not contacting you could be her way of hoping you contact her...ya know... The only way to figure out is like I said, give her a call....call her....dont text her..Give her a call during a time when she is most likely not in class or at work..Talk to her a little bit...if she's not interested, she'll let you know....in which you will then have to move on to the next one

I understand what you are saying, its just i feel SPAM that theres no comfort or attraction from her SPAM. I dont want to seem too needy calling and asking her out all the time if she just doesnt want anything and has already flaked

stop being an insecure girl....you have already been on 3 dates...and you have already kissed her several times...if she was not attracted to you, she would not have gone out with you...and she sure as hell would not have kissed you...CALL HER...see how shes doing and find out what she is doing on a night that you're free..Plan something fun...if your dinner date didnt go as well as you wanted, dont do that again...do something fun....Let her know..say something like "On Saturday I'm doing **insert something fun, whatever you think of** and if you are willing to be adventurous and have a great time, you are more than welcome to join me..if not, I think i'll have to move on because I can't put up with boring girls who dont seek fun, adventure, and good times.."


and if she says no...or that she cant on saturday.......just be like "oh well, you're guna miss out on some fun...but hey, I gotta get going..I'll talk to you another time"........and then dont contact her..if she's interested...and actually busy that day...she will contact you....if not, fuck it dude...move on to the next

And keep in mind you guys havnt talked in a week....Chances are, she's been busy with work and school...and if she asks what you have been up to, as to why you havnt contacted her....it doesnt matter what you've really been doing...you make sure she knows that you have been busy with work and school and hanging out with other friends.

Buyers remorse buddy.. You didnt lay down the game properly when you went over hers she wanted you out. Attraction gone, let her miss you. I wouldn't suggest wasting any energy even thinking about this too much

No more contact, maybe she'll text/call you. maybe she won't. Either way. move on

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Im not going to waste any energy over her for awhile. But i wouldnt mind being with her because when we were together (exc that one time i went over hers) we got on great, lots of kino and good conversation...etc

I may leave it a week or so and if she doesnt text or call ill call her asking if she wants to do something and try to rebuild