I spent all this time searching the archives and trying to figure out where to put this - here or Sticking Points.

I'm starting to think I'm not well calibrated because some of my game is strong, and some of it is weak. This probably sends odd signals to girls sometimes. Example: I still don't kino enough, yet i manage to makeout with them at some point during date 1 and it goes fine.

I have not seen this particular girl in 3 weeks due to her insane schedule. She's a solid 8+. I left her alone for 2 weeks, then started up again and we set up a date.

In a way, I feel like I'm starting over with her - I know I'm not though. So what's the proper 2nd date calibration here. I'm meeting her for drinks in her neighborhood instead of halfway.

id recommend...introducing yourself by giving her a big smile, a hug and a kiss on the cheek...then procceed to get her loooaaadeedd.

Haha That's fuckin hilarious. And actually solid. It actually works really well for this particular one because she was nervous about how to greet each other when we first met.