How can I diplay pre selection effectively? I find sometimes I get embaressed because it really feels like I am showing off or trying to hard?

Better yet I've got this chick that I am after at work. I got her out with me to go shopping. But I got buyers remorse and flaked. But know I want her because she is a nice chick and because she flaked on me when I asked her to shopping with me a second time when I made up my mind about her.

I'm still gaming other chicks. But I want this one man because she said no.

We both have FB.

I was thinking of getting a friend of mine just to talk shit on my wall about me picking up and shit and maybe I could reply with why I flaked in an indirect way.

Also I was thinking of getting my friend to come up to me while she is there to talk shit about how we picked up the other night.

What do you think?

Maintain the rage
BARON

I don't think that's a good idea. For a start, she could sniff bullshit, women are good at that. It would be more effectively if you had girls writing on your wall. Also, she might not even see it. Having a guy say stuff like that could convey to her that you're some sleazy player.

it's over with that chick man, move on she is not into you, talk to way more girls forget her she is not important, as soon as you meet a girl who is better looking that talks to you, you will then think OMG THIS NEW ONE IS SO SPECIAL, you are not approaching women it is obvious, you are too invested in this girl because she is all you have going on, it has been a long time and you have not f-closed this girl, if she is flaky and wont meet you, chances are she thinks you're either ugly, or she is not comfortable with hanging out with you, or thinks you're lame, or she in genuinely busy sometimes with other guy, what she says is irrelevant, girls say alot of things, they are just words designed to keep your attention so she can have orbiters and feel wanted, get to the point, get a yes or no, and continue talking to women and getting that yes or no,

MOVE ON

This post starts by asking a question and then begins describing a situation with little relevance, SO let's break it down.

First, the question about pre-selection. The NUMBER ONE, ABSOLUTELY BEST way to display pre-selection is to have girls. You've got to continue gaming girls to have pre-selection. Of course there are indirect ways. You can always lightly mention something about a girl you know, but it works even better if a wing does it for you. However, do not make it a big deal and do not make the comment about how you were "picking-up" or "being a player". She will feel used and you will be a tool.

Finally, it does sound like you are very outcome oriented. You need to validate yourself by getting her on a date. This attitude can come off as needy. If you see this girl in any of your daily routines, play some distance. Just practice gaming other girls. If she comes around, you will have already earned your pre-selection. On the other hand, if this girl isn't in your daily life, you have two choices. One, drop it. You already messed it up. Two, go ahead and push the envelope. Escalate and be direct. I recommend the second because you'll find boundaries and blowing out can be good. Good luck.

I think your all right ... fuck her... I've got to do more sargeing and stop being a pussy.






Thanks

Edit: Wrong thread...