Hey,

Ever since I learned about game things have been looking up, I have number closed some girls, made some new friends, and much more. I am wondering what I should do though. There are two girls that I am like permanently AFC for, one is a oneitis situation. She is an ex girlfriend but she still wants to hang out with me all the time, inviting me to movies just me and her things like that. The other is just a friend, not even oneitis, I just want to go super far out of my way to help her.

What should I do?

You should hook up with the other girl.

Make her come to you tho....You dont want to go super far out of your way to help her, because if you do shit like that, you will end up her best friend....and most the time, best friends dont get laid. So you want to keep it cool. Don't hang out with your ex...You guys broke up. So start escalating things with this other girl. She will help get your ex out of your mind and provide you with new and exciting experiences. All the while it will show your ex that you mean business and don't have time to "hang out" and "goto movies" with her.

is this where u already know the answer and are looking for validation.

This is where I think I know the answer, and really don't want that to be the case. Oneitis is a hard thing and we all like to feel special, so in reality this is where I need you guys to slap me across the face and make me really realize I need to stop this before I sabotage myself even worse than I likely already am. I wouldn't have asked if I didn't think I was going to need some help to move away from this.

I'll try my best to do what motown has said. Thanks guys, sorry if the thread seemed stupid.

First of all you need to stop "hanging out" with your ex. She has still got a hold over you if she can phone you up and you agree to hang out when she wants. It is never a good idea to still be friendly with an ex. If she contacts you wanting to hang out politely decline and tell her you have other plans, preferably with other girls even if that is not the case. Appear busy and appear that you have other options. You need to get the power back my friend.

Motownsoul is bang on the money with the other chick, escalate things and don't be the guy who gets stuck in the friend zone.

Good luck!

Man move on to another girl, don't waste time on ex. When you break down with her, things will be diferent if you go after her again.