People say "i feel like giving up" or "i cant do it!".


This i dont understand, i can understand sticking points and trying to find out what you need to improve on to get better results.

Same way i dont understand AA, in the sense that people talk about.

AA isnt a reason not to approach, its a SYMPTOM of the approach

You havent had AA until you've approached and you have anxiety whilst speaking to her.

How can you not be working on this? How can you 'give up', everybody has a level of social comfort, find its edge and work from there:

Example

You can only make say hi to cashiers. Well start making small talk. Then start flirting or w/e.

You cant say 'HI' to people in shops and around your general day to day life.

Well start making eye contact. DONE? start smiling too, before you know it you'll be stopping people for the time.

Im not gunna lie, i started off like this "how can it be done?" etc.

Find your edge and attack it, everyday. either way you're getting old. If you feel like giving up, you're just being impatient and/or not working at a level you can handle.

Social anxiety is just an excuse, not a reason. everybody in the world, has to be in social enviroments, so therefore you have somewhere to work with.

I mean i still struggle with even being able to make a sound around crowded areas or even just around people i dont know but i know if i keep heying the people next to me ill be able to open in crowded areas in no time.

Your giving good advice man...i always bullshit with cashires and shop assistants...guys and girls...its good practice...and to game women you need to keep your skills tight all the time.