so a buddy of mine and his wife invite a HB8 from their home town to stay the weekend. i dont hear about this till yesterday and they are hinting to me that she is single so i come over to meet her that day. oh yea she is great is every catogory....she even mentioned she plays call of duty OMG. but im geting no indicators... none...and i figure maybe some more time so we all sit down on the couch and go over pics she took over the time she was here and we lean in and im carefully droping lines like "you look great there" etc but .. no wtf. so it gets time to go to bed and still no ...she gave me no hint or code nothing so in a house of 4 people counting myself with two bed rooms i got the couch!! best part she left this morning.
i had this sick im not good enough to be in the same room with her feeling the entire time i was talking to her. i know these feelings were bullsh@# but its like every time i set eyes on her this would happen and completely shut me down!!! so now im piss@!... im a good looking guy and im fully capable of doing what i set out to do.. but because of fu@#ing feeling it did not happen!!!
dose anyone know what my problem is.. anything.. anybody

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Imagine there's no heaven
It's easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today...

figure out what type of person she is, then figure out what she is missing in her life, then provide what is missing. does she lack adventure? does she need someone to listen to her? Does she need someone to take her serious? Is she generally bored?

start out playful with her, then hint at shit, be subtle and vague, be insinuating. say things that could be taken a number of ways, keep her guessing, be sure to have fun as you do this, you always want to appear to be more interesting than she is. remember what ever you can get someone to imagine is percieved as their own thought, so therefore they dont reject it.

this is just my input, i hope it can help

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you deff needed to demonstrate more alpha qualities. It shoulda been you at the center of attention the whole time, but in a good way. In doing this you demonstrate value, because your attention is now valuble. Deff needed to neg her in a funny way. tell a funny story, get her laughing and focused on you. that night had a lot of potential, but you need to learn a lot before you can just walk in a close her 1 day like that.

I agree with you Prettyboy41

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