This girl that sits next to me in french class is always telling me about her and her boyfriend breaking up. She never sonds sad when shes talking about it, in fact she seems almost jittery about it. She always tries to spark up convos and stuff with me, or get me to come to parties with her, but up until this point, i haven't really bothered with her because she has a boyfriend.

BTW i should mention she is literally the hottest girl on campus. But i dont let that really affect me.

Anyway, she told me today that her and her boyfriend are taking a break or some shit, but she doesnt really want me to tell anyone. I'm thinking thats an in, but i really dont want to be the dick that bangs some other dudes chick. Its one of my principles not to get with girls that have boyfriends.

My question was basically, should i proceed? but i think i basically answered it just by writing this. Whatever, i guess write back your thoughts on the situation. thanks guys

i'd go for it...if shes asking you to goto parties with her...then she probably wants to hang out with you... or she may want to take you to a party to get her boyfriend jealous when he sees her with another guy? I dont know.

If you're not into going the the party(s), then just be like "actually, I was thinking about doing this/going here/etc, you're more than welcome to join me.."

I like your principle, but do you get girls often? I'm just wondering because I follow by that principle too and I don't seem to have any sort of attraction, and so my impression is I might be a wimp.

I also agree that if she had got together with some guy and wants you to show up at some party with her, then it might do more harm than good.

It honestly isn't, completely over if she's still talking about him.. A break isn't necessarily a "break-up".. In fact, anything done during the break is still considered cheating.

She may be looking for a rebound just to take her mind off him, but if you don't wanna be the asshole that bangs some other guys girl i suggest you leave it alone.

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1: I get plenty of girls. I was just trying to figure out a way to morally get over getting with her.

2: i like parties.

3: i made my decision, thank you all for your input