guys im wondering bout joining plenty of fish, ok cupid. and match. any feed back or hints and tips on reccomdations about which sites to use. sometimes i can go out and sarge and my only option is online. i would greatly appreciate ur hints and tips

match costs money the other 2 are free.

Generally Match attracts chicks who are serious about a relationships
POF attracts dumb chicks
Cupid attracts smarter chicks

Gross generalization but its the format of the website that pushes them to that demographic

I like OKC the best but it requires more work on your profile then the other two to attracts but that's a good thing if you put int he work.

plenty of fish is the best, here is how to use it PROPERLY:

http://www.youtube.com/user/Under21conv ... 5fRrFJnrBg

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Cool Im going to check this long ass video out, thanks for the link.

Fun fact on dating sites
They dont really go off of what you put you like.
Say you put in you like brunettes, but for some reason it shows you all these blonds as your suggestions. Dating sites have learned how people lie to look better so they've made a new formula for "suggesting" a date.
So even though you put in brunettes, you start doing some looking and spend most of your time looking at blond profiles - their site registers you looked at 20 more blonds than brunettes and uses THAT for suggestions instead of what you put.

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I'm on match and I have to agree with the poster who said most girls are looking serious. I definitely pulled in some grudge fucks, but most of the girls buy into what they see in the commercial. If they think or figure out that's what you're about, your toast, even if they think. I had a girl tell me (who's pics were misleading) that she had a great time, until we venture for a late dinner in my neighborhood (long story not worth getting into). Gee, let me guess, before we were Auerole and our second stop was a more casual place - girl you're gonna have to get in better shape if you want that type of SPAM from any guy, let alone me (I of course did not say this to her). You won't really care, I don't, but it is time wasted. I'm actually thinking about cancelling. I met one chick where I was like, "wow," this could work, but she ended up getting serious with an old friend, such is life. Oh, this is more of a problem for me, girls around my age (mid 30s) with post pics of them from their mid to late 20s. There's quite a bit of bait and switch. I mean do you really want to put in all that work for some chick your luke warm about, who wants a relationship? Probably not.

Ok Cupid I felt for someone my age wasn't right, if you're in your 20s in looks like a cool site. Also, I don't know where they get these psych tests, but they were farthest from the truth as to me personality.

POF, I haven't tried, but might.

eharmony I have not tried, but it looks like a whole lot of hassle to meet a 4 of 5.

J.

Good point Char. I have noticed when I did OKCupid they always suggested ugly ass chicks for me in their automated match thing. However they had a good search algorithm so I just found my own girls to pursue, and ignored their advice.

Sturg Im around your age and I had no issue finding chicks off OKC. If you want some specific advice PM me as there is definitely a game plan which if I wouldn't have been aware of if I didn't research, I would have been mr. AFC on OKC and given up like most people. My big issue was continually hooking up with a stream of not hot enough chicks. A quality problem, but a problem none the less.

I just started Match.com and I agree there are an inordinate number of unrealistic chicks shooting above their weight class. I actually read the profile and if they seem like a pain in the ass or I see a laundry list of things they want I move on. I don't fuck with headaches, no need as there are tons of chicks online. I keep getting these fucking winks on Match which I never got on OKC, I find them annoying as fuck. If anyone knows how to handle them correctly let me know.

Im gonna watch that video the guy linked above now.

so for a guy who is 21, last year in university, i take it the best options are ok cupid?

PoF an OKCupid. I would alternate every few months