This isn't really an online game question, but it partially is, depending on whether you use Facebook, as I don't use it and also don't really have any interest to register for it and use it. It's based on a friend I saw doing some approaches, who did everything right.

A problem I sometimes notice, is that some females seem to now be using Facebook as an easier way to flake on you. I was wondering if people had any helpful suggestions on what to say to ladies met and/or approached in the real world, to avoid getting this, irrespective whether a guy does, or doesn't use Facebook himself.

What I mean, is you do an approach in the real world, you start conversing, then when you get round to asking for a phone number, a lady may say to friend request her on Facebook and she'll give it to you there, then when you do, she flakes and doesn't add you, so you can start messaging her on Facebook. If your friend request isn't accepted, then you can't message anyone.

IDK, but you mentioned you cannot message them anymore. Maybe they're hip to that. I'm just guessing. A lot of times nobody really knows for sure why women do what they do.

I'd try to get the number instead of a facebook.

Facebook is even lower interest than a number. It's usually easier to ignore you and the girl more than likely already has a full roster of chode followers on there.

In my opinion if you sarge a girl in person, it is counter-productive to go down the whole facebook, social networking route. The only way you do that is if you lot hit it off well and you have already f-closed her and you want to still be friends after or more. The only way facebook etc should be used is to sarge girls you havent met in person, or people you have seen around but havent had the chance to sarge. It should not be used instead of getting the phone number, if anything flake her if she want's you to add her on facebook. I will tell you from past experience using facebook as a prop to get to know a girl better doesnt really work, settle with a number if you have to settle for anything.

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