| IMPORTANT shit to know before reading: I have been gaming for a few months now. I have gotten pretty good pretty fast, although this particular situation has really been throwing me off. I am 16, pretty good looking (not to be vain, just important information) and an American, living in Germany. I am on foreign exchange here. So, the clubbing age and drinking age is 16. Please give me all of the help you can!
The Girl: This is an HB9 to HB9.5. As far as personality goes, she is at least a 9. She is very flirty, sexy and cute. I have been gaming her for about a month. Honestly, I have a pretty bad case of one-itis. See, I had pretty effectively, and efficiently gamed her, got her out on a few dates, despite her fuck-head of a boy-friend. Even got her in my bed (although all that happened was some kissing). She is a bit manipulative, as she is FAR more attractive than I am. She likes to show me that I am her bitch, and that she owns me by tossing me around emotionally. Of course, being an average dude, I try, to no avail, to resist these emotional roller-coasters. But, despite all of that, she is very sweet.
Situation: See, I had a wild weekend, where I gamed this girl in a club so hard that I fucked her in the woods. Then I get back to school the next week, and as I had suspected. The girl I had put serious time and effort into was totally withdrawn and not herself. I assumed she would hear about me fucking her friend, but I guess I just thought that since she had a BOYFRIEND it would turn out okay. So, I need a next move. I am by no means willing to give up on this chick and move on. I want some advice on how to get her to be in a long-term relationship with me. Right now, she has been trying to get me back to being her bitch. What she will do is come up to me, after an entire day of ignoring me, and hug me, and kiss my cheek. Then, at first, before I sat down and devised a plan, I would assume things were back to normal. So, I would try to hold her hand, or kiss her, and she would pull away, doing the emotion roller-coaster bullshit.
My Current Approach: What I have been doing, is trying to freeze out. I always project happiness. Every where I go I've got my shoulders high. I'm smiling, laughing, flirting, being fucking cool. I dress well, and am well groomed. When she tries to hug me, or kiss me, I just push her a way, with a huge grin, and say "Not now babe." I really can't tell how well it's working. If you think it will work, let me know. Also let me know if I seem like a jackass, if this aproach is stupid, or if it is a good idea.
Thanks and cheers in advance!
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