I posted yesterday about this girl I met a few weeks ago off POF. The online game worked really well with her and got a date within a week. Like she would be always messaging me on facebook and texting me first so this was going real easily. So yesterday we're talking about the weekend plans and I tell her I wanna watch the Saints Buccaneers game so I can see my team beat up on the ex's team. That comment fired her up and she replied with how I'm not over her yet and how no she won't watch that game with me. We eventually kiss and make up via text but I dunno now. Sunday night she was asking me if we're official and should change our facebook status and I was like, let's wait another date to be official. But after this, I dunno. I went home and deleted my POF account since I was talking about doing it and she happened to notice. Told me she was surprised but guesses it's a good thing because I seem serious. However, she's also like I want to wait and see what happens because I think you're not fully over your ex yet(she left me in July). The last couple times we've been talking(last night and this morning on facebook) the convo's been kinda blah...did get a little playful at times including last night when she randomly asked if I like porn and then I ask her if she does and she's like sometimes because she likes to learn new positions. I think I got her where I want her, but how do I show her that I don't give a F#$k about my ex.

Not mentioning her would be a good start. The girl seems interested already, I dont really understand your problem.