Ok Ive been in a lot of relationships with lots of girls but I dont consider myself to be a PUA, every girl who Ive been with had never really got to my heart, no matter how hard they try. Except for my girlfriend, we were in a relationship for 3 years, she was always suspicious because a ''guy like me'' didnt lack any women, then knowing this some friend invented a fake identity of me to convince her I was cheating. So she wasnt the same with me from that day, then I started acting beta when I started trying to prove my love while she was a jerk to me and I got insecure because she did have my heart. The thing is that she cheated on me and dumped me so I broke up with her too and a month later she begged for forgiveness and I gave her another chance, but it wasnt the same anymore, she doesnt give me her number, doesnt add me to facebook and doesnt want to admit she has boyfriend to her friends.

After reading a bit on this forum I became more aware of my role as a man again and I stopped acting beta with her, not needy or clingy or overly sweet (like i used to be). To which she reacted with no contact for 5 days, and I got fed up so I havnt contacted her for 2 weeks. I miss her but I dont trust her, and she doesnt want to work for that trust. She says I should trust her (blindly) since I gave her another chance, but I cant forget what she did and I dont feel like being romantic with her anymore. My heart is a mess, I love her but I dont need her, i miss her a lot but i dont want to even think about her. This is the first time Ive been through this, no girl had ever dared cheating on me before.

"Any advice on how to make any girl change her mind about a guy?"

dont change her mind,,,, change her emotions.

(i always liked that qoute)

as for the rest of your problem....... i dont know man, girls are flighty creatures.

I like that quote, its completely true, I often forget that they place emotions above logic.

They?

I assume you mean women? Well i hate to break it to you, but a lot of dudes do that as well. Let's address the two facts that she CHEATED ON YOU. That's the endgame, you should be done with this girl, yet you are trying to justify staying with her. There's no love, here, so take the healthy approach and just walk away.

ditch her, and don't look back. She cheated on you and hides your relationship, FUCK THAT

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i think he meant they do it more consitently then men do.

Yeah man, when I said ''they'' I meant women, they're not logic, theyre emotional and we often forget about that, which is how theyre wire.

Im not trying to justify staying with her, i want to leave her behind, thats why Im here, but my feelings are involved in this. Also I need my self esteem back. All I want is for her to see what she's lost and that its her fault, but that would not be what a real alpha male would do. And I still have feelings for the girl. So Im confused on what will make me feel satisfied. Thats what matters here, not the girl. She hurt me bad, since she cheted and dumped me I feel of low value, and I either want return on my investment or revenge. I realized, that in reality loosing me is enough of a high prize to pay, but how i feel is revengeful.

your ex/current girlfriend has no morals.

move on.

the damage is done.

still 3,499,999,999 more women out there.

think all will lie and cheat on you like she did?

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