So this girl who I have been shagging for the last month... she seems to go cold on me after we shag.

2 nights ago we went out and she was practically begging to come back with me, and all week end we text loads.... and then last night shes in a different club and doesn't text me back till just now.

shes making me feel like shit, it's as though everything is on her terms etc....

How can I make her wrapped around my little finger? shes not a very suggestive person at all.... Any ideas? or resources?

ps. Shes not seeing any other guys we have spoken, and agreed we are just with each other seeing how it goes.

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my mate seems to have girls ringing him up constantly checking on him, and wanting to see him... is it more to do with the type of girl she is?

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someone must know something? im in the mood to research today.

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I think that exclusive fuck buddy may be the worst possible arrangement you can make. You are tying her down while not offering her the emotional aspects of a committed relationship. I've been there, and it sucks. Furthermore, when you decide to keep a casual relationship, this is what happens. you can't expect teh girl's social life to revolve around you. And finally, I think its an unhealthy attitude to ask how you can have her "wrapped around your finger." You may have just used it due to lacking a better term, but we are talking about a person here.

My take? Either go for the committed relationship, or keep the casual hookups but without the exclusivity. Then you won't have these concerns.