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woo hooo. You guys are going the wrong way to solve the problem. Let me get you all back on the right path.
It's all cout frames.
Now lets move into the right way to solve the issue.
As stated about, its all cout frames. She is trying to set a frame passively, here is how
you are cute but too young (for me, you are not upto my standard, we are not going to get along etc)
now you need to apply the frame control. And there are two ways to frame control
1. Passive face control
2. Active frame control
now without going into the details i am going to give examples of the replies
1. You could just laugh it out, "hahahahaha" and then changed the topic. That is passive frame control. Now if you sense that she is pushing the subject and isnt moving away from the topic, then you need to apply active frame control without insulting her, an example would be
"you dont need to worry about age, i know all about myself. Worry about yours"
hb,"i know mine and i dont need to worry about it"
you,"if you are sure about yours then you really dont need to worry about it and thats so cool"
now not only frames have been turned around but her frame has been crushed too.
Enjoy
khuram
Man, you WAY TOO MUCH thought into this. Game is not that difficult. Online you need to keep it playful and keep them interested in you. Simple, effective, and it works.
I guess your ideas might. Thanks trolling them to us.
