Dude your getting all this advice, how about using some of it?

Get off your ass and fix up your shit. You keep blaming society and people being "racist". The way you talk even if you were a hot white guy, people would probably treat you the same. Stop being a little bitch and do something about yourself instead of complaining that everyone is racist.

this is retarded

read about this one night out i had last week

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and with the girl "i was vibing ridiculously" with, we were basically just talking about india

For goodness sake listen to him !!!!!!!

mate I dont know what the phenomenom is called but its the process where you change your main focus to annother one and your old focus's fall into place by themself . Like taking a break from learning to play a song on an instrument and the next time you try and play it you realise your better than you last were.

Paramount if DC cannot change your mindset (someone whos been in the same place as you ) then no one and i repeat no one on this forum will be able to.

So I suggest you drop it , drop trying to pick up women completely and focus on making yourself a better person for the future you. Get rid of the mindset that you need women in your life to make you happy.

Learn to make yourself happy to the point were if you face the same insecurity in the future your not phased by it.

Just look out for the future you , do shit with your life no one wants to be around somone whos upset and unsecure with themself , especaily women , women dont need annother pussy !

please just change your main focus in life away from women . Just experience life and everything will eventually fall into place

OMG seriously you guys didn't read what I said. I am mainly not like this in real life, in real life I am mr super optimistic in a lot of cases but on the internet this whole thing kicks in.

Recently I just came back from a party, got two girls to be in a picture with me and danced with some girls.

Honestly I live with my parents so my time is not really my own time, I don't have my own car yet.

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DC guy, I gave you more reps.

You said do not put p*ssy on the pedestal. Thing is I am not but the future looks scary.

I see all these Black, White, Latino, and even Asian kids in happy and fulfilling relationships and stuff. I see them all date each other and date around and as an Indian kid sometimes it makes me think is there something about Indian guys that turns women away from us or what?

Anyways I re-read your post and it was all clear to me. Now you think I waste my time away online? Sure at times I have been guilty of that but just recently I came back from a party and had fun.

Now you may say my problem is mental but it is seriously not. I am really limited to the point where one night stands, kisses, and relationships are pretty freaking hard.

Anyways the discussion will continue but regardless, I have repped you.

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I'd say the biggest thing holding back Indian and many asian guys more than other races is their own attitude. Often Indians and other asians are very focused on study in the formative years of sexual identity. Early highschool and what not. No point taking that with you for your whole life.

Let's say it is harder, let's say it's 100 times harder(it's not, but let's pretend it is)

That just means you need to work 100 times harder. You know that. So do it. The alternative is no pussy at all. Get the fuck off your computer and go and put in the extra effort. You want to fuck 6 foot white chicks that weigh 90 pounds, dress and act like the guys who do it on a regular basis. Don't make excuses, but don't be too hard on yourself.

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why does everyone assume all guys want White women?

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Why do you asumme everybody wants white women only?
I love all races and colours.

Well, isn't Jeremy Soul an Indian ? If he is not, at least he looks like one. So if he can get white women that breaks your theory. In my hown town I have once seen an Indian guy with 3 white women. So I have no idea what you are talking about.

Freddie Mercury was Indian.

He was also bisexual, but had he been straight do you really think he wouldn't have been able to knob anyone he wanted?

I hate to break my even temper but, because they f*ckin said so, let me demonstrate.

"You want to fuck 6 foot white chicks that weigh 90 pounds"
"So if he can get white women that breaks your theory."

I mean all over people assume I am going to drop my jaws over a White woman, I do not view them as anything special. Not only on here but in real life and stuff and even other forums.

Anyways

You guys completely missed what I was trying to say or I made a poor effort in portraying it to you.

I do not want a trophy wife, I do not want that one beautiful woman who I can propose to. I am not looking for that kind of a life. I am looking for a life where I go out to clubs and get to dance with and party with a whole group of people.

NOW here is where the horror comes in. I hear that in clubs and bars, race is basically going to do a guy in. Is me being an Indian guy going to limit me? Like lets say Fabio from Italy and Juan from Spain both try go with me, will I be overshadowed no matter how good I look and how much game I have?[/b]

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I was saying if that's what you do want go get it, if you want to fuck 80 chicks from 80 countries act like the guys who do. Most importantly, you need to stop making excuses, the harder it is, the harder you have to work. You can't frame it any other way.

Want success? you're going to have to work for it.
Want to sit on your computer complaining about how you're indian, live in a small town, don't have a car, live with your parents? don't expect people to keep trying to help.

How about this, become desirable in the way you look by making some physical changes, move to a big city, take the fucking bus if you have to, get a job and buy a car, move out of your parents. Start making changes and people will help you, keep complaining and people will give up.

You're probably just going to try and make other excuses when replying to this anyway, saying why you can't do those things I just suggested, but hey, deep down you know exactly what you have to do, exactly what you have to learn, you're just scared, and you're using excuses to justify that fear and deny yourself from taking action.

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What he said. Cut the crap. Blame yourself, not society.

Dude its alllll in your head, there is one, yes only one indian guy in my school of over 2000 and he dates so damn many of the hottest chicks in our school

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You ask us for help, then describe your problem, and then tell us to ignore your problem. But you already asked me for help. I'm going to talk about it because it is very important. And I don't want to spend a ton of time talking around the issue. I thinks its more productive to tackle it head on.

If you were proud of your race and heritage you would be happy to date an Indian girl. Maybe you feel ashamed because of your race and heritage. Learning to accept it would be dating an Indian girl.

If you don't accept yourself for your faults then you will never grow. Your fault is that you deeply believe that Indian women is not as good as other women. That means that Indian Men are not as good either.

Indian women are no more better or worse than the other races. You have a stereotype. The first step is to travel around and spend some time in places you haven't lived, europe, asia, america. Try to find educated people that don't believe in racism to spend your time with, and slowly you will come to realize that the world is a huge place, and judging all Indian women is an ignorant thing to do.

Maybe after you stop belittling your own race then you will be able to get with a girl of different skin color, not that it should matter.

Or if you choose to remain a racist, you could just look up a bunch of Indian jokes on the internet and always make fun of yourself when you are around white people. *sarcasm*

You don't have to be a puppet for people to overcome racial stereotypes. Sure you are going to experience people that judge you, everyone does. I'm sorry the world is that way. But if you aren't able to love the beautiful Indian woman, thats just bad Karma.

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