I only get messages written to me from extremely fat chicks. I'm not even that picky a guy...I have no problem dating a bigger girl that some would say is an HB6 or even 5. But man...these women that mail me are like 2's and 3's. My budies are better looking guys than I am and they get the 6's and 7's no problem mailing them. I understand game is important...but fuck it would be nice for once in my life not to have to have any and take a 6 or 7 without having to work so damn hard for it all the time.

Post your profile. Maybe people can make some suggestions for you.

If you're talking about them mailing you.. Take the initiative and mail some better looking women.


edit: made some suggestions but looked at the wrong profile. Have you ever posted a profile critique request?

Exactly.
Don't expect them to come to you, get your online sarging in order and open them yourself.

hey big girls need loving too

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yeah just not from us

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those who say it can't be done should get the fuck out the way of those doing it

Those woman in my experience are the only ones that will actually email men on dating sites because they are like the men and don't get people emailing them. I'd find it very unlikely an 7+ would ever initiate the chat with a guy on a dating site.

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-TheKrush

I'm not here to put people down but to get help in areas I need it, and to offer help in areas I feel confident in.

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To op:

I just looked at your profile, again.... Women HATE it when guys tell them what to wear.

"Also, if you only wear sweat pants and hoodies, we are going to have to go shopping. I like a girl who can get dirty with the boys, but also enjoys dressing up to go to a classy event.

I'm not incredibly picky but I do know the type of personality and character I'm attracted to. I think I totally deserve someone great; I'd hope you feel the same way in regards to yourself!
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Try something like:
"I like cute girls that can get dirty with the guys. I love it when they can also pull off a formal dinner.

I'm warning you; I don't come easy! You're gonna need a great personality, too! "


Not the best. You're not displaying any humor or being playful.

Here's the deal. Try not telling women you are not picky. Be picky, but talk to as many women as you can. You can choose whether you want to date them or not. In the mean-time you're gonna get practice talking to women.