I got this girls number in one of my classes HB9.5 lol she's real hot. She doesn't come to the class much because she's a junior and it's a gen. ed course. But I got her number when I brought studying up a day before the test so we texted about the test that day she invited me study with her that night but since she took awhile to text back (found out she was at work) so I didn't try to do that. After the test i text her askin how she think she did etc. After she stopped textin back I haven't said anything since then and that was last week Thursday.

What I'm tempted to do is try to go somewhere with her like the movies or this campus event today where you watch a movie in the pool. So should I try to make a move with this or should I just wait to study with her when the next test comes up. And If I should go for it what's the best way to "invite" her without throwing myself out there.

AJB it's good you got her phone number. Good job! But the thing I learned about girls is through my life is that they have a six sense. This might not make any sense logically but it's true. When you only have one girl you are longing for you're subconscious mind makes you act as if you are needy and depend on this girl. And if you try to fight against this subconscious feeling and act as if you're comfortable you will start to become anxious and nervous. Girls can sense that. It's like they have this detector in their brains(even the dumb ones) that help them detect this needy feeling. Even when you text the girl can sometimes feel it. The solution for your problem would be to talk to more than one girl. I believe your in college correct, there are so many all types of girls in college there should be no reason why you don't speak to multiple girls. The more girls you will have in your life the more comfortable you will be. And when I say girls I don't only mean girlfriends that you have intimate relationships with I also mean just friends. Once you have so many girls in your life this subconscious feeling of neediness and anxiety will leave you. And this girl will sense that you have other females in your life and she will be more interested in you and you will be less interested in her. Thus having a higher value than her. The more you have something and the more you do something the more natural it becomes to you. Do you ever think about how to brush your teeth when you brush them. NO. Because you did it so many times. Same with girls. The main point is, it not about what you do or say right now. It's rather how your mind is set. How your conscious and subconscious mind thinks. Good luck!

- Amazing Art -

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"Experience is the teacher of all things"

You got her number man KUDOS! Build social proof around you by talking to other girls in the gen. ed class; That way when she comes in, your surrounded my female company( Huge social proof) and she will text you about any test or quiz Then study with her and occasionally get side tracked during the studying.
A. provides a perfect time constraint "hey I'll show you this (insert DHV Here e.g. palm reading) but the we've gotta get back to study

Happy sarging
-Cmoose

i guess ignored what you guys said but anyways i texted her

Me: Heyy there
Her: Heyyy what's up?
Me: I'm goin to see this movie at 11 tonight come join me.
Her: I wish I could but I will be in Knoxville

So i guess i'm gonna do what you guys said and talk to some more girls especially in that class. and i'll probably try to study when we get closer to the next test

Great Learning experience man No worries !
-Cmoose

College game is tricky. Depending on where you go, the method of pickup varies. Social circle game is huge for most schools, where frats and sororities dominate the social scenes. If you're like me and go to a small private liberal arts school where there are no frats or sororities, then social circle game becomes less important than just randomly meeting girls (cold approach?? but not direct). AmazingArt is right. First, you need to rid yourself of neediness.

In the short run though, if you want to game this girl, you have to just put yourself out there. If you have high social value, you can demonstrate that to her. But sooner or later, you have to make sure that she gets the message that you are attracted to her. Take it or leave it. And don't bother increasing your social value for just this one girl. Increasing social value takes a long time. She'll be long gone by the time you establish your social value.