Thanks alot.
I took her out for a walk in the park. Told her I really liked her and all that, but that I had been slacking too much on primarely my education, but also I need to be a role model for my younger brothers and spend more time with them.
She wasn't happy that I wouldn't be calling her my girlfriend. But she agreed to see me on casual terms. So now she is pretty much on standby and ready to be girlfriend'ed whenever I feel like it.
This is crazy, a month ago I was an AFC and now I'm twisting a HB10 round my finger.
Once again thanks Fasxination - and the community for helping my selfimprovement.