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PostPosted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 1:34 am 
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Hey guys, I´ve been "in" the game for about 6 months, but for as much as I read watch or listen I seem to have gotten nearly zero progress :( I believe its because my lack of guts or dedication. But I finally want to change this! I want to become the PUA artist Ive always wanted to be!
Any advice any sugguestions?
Thanks a lot guys and always go forth!

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 2:57 am 
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Your letting fear control you, and you only have yourself to blame for your actions.if you don't overcome fear it will consume you and will not let you progress. You have to accept rejection and failure, once you accept it and stop over thinking you will be ok.

There is no perfect script to read to talk to a girl, and we all think this method works and this method works. A friend told me while i was doing a door-to-door job and said you can study and read as many pitches as you want but if you dont apply what you have read whats the point in reading the material?

it's about walking the talk and actions speak louder then words

I read alot of books and this is what help me overcome my fear of talking to people its from the psychology of selling by Brian Tracy, and he uses affirmations in the mirror and says I like myself I like myself whenever he is in doubt.

These are a couple quotes don't remember who wrote them but their just in my iPad to read whenever I felt fear.

-"feel the fear and do it anyway" (doing what you fear until you dont fear it anymore and have more self confidence)


That fear inside is a challenge. It’s message to you. It says live. It’s showing you where you can change and grow.

Hold onto it. Listen to it. Become intimate with it. It is your greatest friend and your greatest foe. Keep it close and it will provide you with the path to your greatest fulfillment.

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 3:52 am 
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I know man thats exactly whats been happening to me but I´ve decided once and for all to get out of my comfort zone more often!
by the way I really liked the phrase "Feel The fear and do it anyway"
Thanks for your advice man[/quote]

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 8:13 pm 
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I think you learm by practising things, you can study anything you want but if you don't practise what you've learned then it's useless for you, don't think to much, don't listen to your emotions and JUST DO IT!

Go for it lion!!

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 22, 2011 10:26 pm 
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Hey guys, I´ve been "in" the game for about 6 months, but for as much as I read watch or listen I seem to have gotten nearly zero progress :( I believe its because my lack of guts or dedication. But I finally want to change this! I want to become the PUA artist Ive always wanted to be!
Any advice any sugguestions?
Thanks a lot guys and always go forth!
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I think you learm by practising things, you can study anything you want but if you don't practise what you've learned then it's useless for you, don't think to much, don't listen to your emotions and JUST DO IT!

Go for it lion!

YuriBoyka a.k.a. BadGuy #peace
"A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step" - Confucius

"Just do it" - SPAM Gandhi


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2011 5:00 pm 
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the reason your not getting anywhere is because your spending too much time in books, and not enough time in women ;)


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2011 7:32 pm 
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You should read the sticky thread "Frame Control, Defining Reality, and Being High-Value".

The art of natural gaming does not come through learning HOW TO attract women, but rather through clearing your mind and being yourself.

The solution for you is simply watching videos of Eckhart Tolle, I would recommend this one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j42cTkiGdXY


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2011 7:47 pm 
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You need to focus on going into the field now. theory is nothing without practice. Pilots spend a lot of time studying varying aspects of aviation, but eventually need to fly an aircraft before they'll be an ace.


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With diligent preparation also comes practice. The best way to improve at anything is to practice while studying. Or else you'll be waiting for a time when you have the skills you "believe" are necessary to get things done, but you will never have those skills because you've never did anything.


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2011 2:29 pm 
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Yea, I've been there myself. I use to know everything about pick up and was a pick-up-study-junkie and had no idea of how to make myself do it.
Than one day I met a guy who helped me. He really challenged me on why I don't do this. I can help you with this if you want, write on my personal messages.

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stop reading. start going out.


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