So, i recently broke up with my girlfriend. And now i'm after her super hot friend. We've talked a little bit, but not a whole lot. When we did talk, she was giving me some IOI's (I guessed it was through social proof of her friend that I was dating). So, my question is: When i make the official approach, do I just go straight to increasing my value, or do I challenge and neg her a bit?

To the first guy just do it. Be strong don not apologise. Life is too short.

To the secound guy. Manipulation is everywhere. If you are smart enough, you can make an informed choice. Have you not heard Ross Jefferies say that everything is hypnosis.

There are a lot of techniques out there. But they are useless if you lack the confidence to use them. You cannot blame someone for that. Sooner or later you have to push yourself in field and build up experience.

There are some nice guys out there. You have to learn to be able to tell who is genuine. That is no different from in real life.

The professionals from my point of view have at least confidence that is coming out of them which is infectious. That is something worth paying for.

It’s very hard, but I would say find some good friends or some PUA’s and hang out with them and learn something from each other. A negative attitude even when justified is not going to help you. Even a truth, if it is unpleasant will not help you until you can see a benefit in it.

Finally nothing in the world is for free.

I wish you both successes.

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