Okay guys... little bit of background started messeging this girl on FB i went to middle school with surprising she still remembered me had mad online game with her got her number very quick and had awesome text game with her for about a week...asked her out on a date for a friday she had plans but asked if saturday or sunday would be good for me we both agreed on saturday night...didnt text her up until the day of...asked her what time we was to meet up and where...she said 7 or 8, so when it got to be 7 i texted her and told her i was in town bc she asked me to do so when i got there i told her i was at a friends house to just let me know when she was in town and ready she said okay with a smiley face and ask if it was okay to meet at our local mall, i said okay....never heard from her, checked her FB and she posted a status around 7:45 saying she was having a blast with some of her girlfriends....

where did i go wrong?
what was her motive behind this craziness?

havnt txted her or talked to her since any ideas how to make a come back this one was a cold hb9 dont want lose this one!

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She needs a award for biggest bitch of the year. Alot of girls flake on plans, thats common, but what she did what straight up stand you up, that was mean of her.

Id say forget about her, she oviously dosent care, she didint just bail on plans, she had you waiting on her expecting her and never showed up that was just cruel of her.
Idk why she did this, some girls are just bitches.

But if you try to re-engage her after that, you will have no value, similar to what myster said, if you call a girl twice and she dosent answer then your done, if you try again your value has already gone through the floor.

Id say just forget about her and move on to another girl shese a bitch

Wait for her to message you and ignore it. Wait a second time act as if nothing happened, be *INDIFFERENT* set up a date. An hour before the date text her saying you've had a better offer.

If you think it is harsh then realize she deserves it.

This will destroy her confidence and her frame. Don't be a doosh about it,again seem INDIFFERENT*, keep it under the radar and be subtle. This will either get her to ignore you or she will be apologetic for last time. Then you say 'well you can make it up to me but it's going to be tough for you' but more *INDIFFERENT* and set up for another day. She won't flake out.

Unfortunately its make or break and it's down to her. Do not message her first under any circumstances. She is expecting this and if you do you will be falling for her plan. Remember it is a game, she started playing it, You will be better player than her in the end. Just make it seem like you are seeing other people in the meantime as if you have forgotten that she exists.

thanks guys, i had never had this happen to me before and was unsure what was going on...but im going to go with she is a total bitch and would like to get revenge so i will wait for her to messege me...set up a date then ditch her. and NOT talk to her again

thanks for the input

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make her laugh and you can make her do anything

It's not about revenge, its about trying to change the likelihood of the outcome to favor what you want. If it's about revenge walk away

Mytt8 i used your advice....and..... F CLOSE!

you will forever be my friend!

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make her laugh and you can make her do anything