Low's right about the behaviours

However the reason i wanted my gf back was simply because i want to be the one ending it, it didnt end on my terms and therefore that was unnaceptable to me (correcting a mistake) i have no illusions about the potential life and length of the relationship but i want to be with her now and i want to be the one to break it off... that sounds much more douchey then it is but thats the best way to explain it i think

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Ok bro chill... I get it now i wont go back to that chick. She is hot and i realize that what is affecting me is the way she still looks at me on purpose (even my friends notice this) and my tupid hormones. Although she wants me back and shows me IOIs i will burn all bridges down and move on.

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When a girl breaks up with you, she wants to see you destroyed. She wants to see you beg, cry, plead, mourn, sob, and threaten to kill yourself. Not because it makes her re-think her decision, but because there is no greater satisfaction on earth, for a woman, than to stand victorious over a man.

I’m going to give you the honest, brutal truth. You MUST end all contact with this girl, get over her, and never think about this again. I’ll tell you why

If you do what you’re “supposed” to do in order to get back with her, (act aloof, be wanted by other girls, become more alpha), then you WILL revert back to your old habits and mentality RIGHT AFTER you are successful in getting back with her. It is far too often that a guy comes to this site after a break up, learns how to get back with his ex, and then falls back into his diseased AFC mentality right after he is able to make up with his ex.

(B) It is ALWAYS better to focus your energy on starting a new relationship than trying to salvage an old one

(C) If your process of self-development STARTS because of a girl, it will ALSO END because of a girl. It must be for YOU. Not for an ex, not for a current girlfriend, not for anyone beside yourself.

(D) There is no “guarantee” that a girl will come back to you even if you game her 100% properly. It’s way more likely that you will convince yourself that “game” is just a myth and accept the warped reality force-fed to you by society if you run game on your ex and fail at it.

Abundance.
There are more women out there, hotter than your ex, and a better fit for you. Unless you TRULY accept that idea, you will suffer from chronic dependency.

Its all been said. dont try to chase an ex, this is never a good idea (and it also wont bring her back to you).

You broke up because she wanted you to meet her parents and as a man you thought she should meet yours first?!

Thats one of the bumbest things Ive heard on this site.

You have no chance of getting her back dude. Some things a woman can ignore but when it comes to family? You've hurt her... and there aint no coming back from here.

She broke up with you because you fell short of her ideal man. The one who drives a Jeep Cherokee and owns a lab and plays football with his buddies every Sunday and knows how to make fondue.

See, she is going to try and find this guy between now and when she's 30, until one terrible morning she's going to wake up and realize he doesn't exist. Then she'll think back on all the men who fell short of this imaginary ideal, and she'll think of you. Be the best man she ever dated and can't have again. Date other women, let her know she made the biggest mistake of her life nexting you.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

i have my own lab .. but i still cannot make good fondue damnit...

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