Hey guys.
I will talk about why it`s good to go to hookers.
AA Destroyed
Seriously,after sex,you have two options:
- Get too horny to care about AA
- Be totally disintirested in sex
You smell like sex
Gunwitch and David X,they both teach us that women can tell you had sex.Even if it`s paid or free,you still smell preselection.(From your Body Language,and the big ass smile on your face)
Good practice for virgins
Prostitutes will teach you a lot if you ask them.
So try it,you won`t be disappointed.

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When you realize that rejection doesn`t mean shit you`ll try to find a way how to kick your own ass for being an idiot.

I would rather just get clean pussy

like you get any

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When you realize that rejection doesn`t mean shit you`ll try to find a way how to kick your own ass for being an idiot.

no only is this some of the worst advise ever, but the thought of using a hooker to lose your virginity is sad.

1. If you have AA GET OVER IT, THEY DONT BITE!

2. If your a virgin, that's really not a big deal and for the sake of devolving healthy relationships and healthy bonds over time, don't lose your virginity to a hooker. Find someone your into and is into you and make it "special"

3. You might smell like sex...but you also might smell like 15 other guys.

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-DJ_Z

1 - AA is not the problem....the anxiety while talking to a girl more than 1 minute just fucks guys up.
2 - That`s just plain stupid if you are a guy who doesn`t look for relationships.(After a time doing PUA you realize relationships arent worth the hassle)
4 - (you meant three).She can take a shower.

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haha nice, looks like I made that post at 6am, I was still a little foggy headed I'm sure


Here's the deal man, there are a million was a guy can get experience talking to a pretty girl without hiring a hooker. If you AA is sooo bad you cannot approach, there's a few *healthier was to deal with this.

(lets see if I'm awake enough to number stuff right this time lol)

1. Go find a smoking hot hair stylist, get a hair cut and a shampoo, not only does this put you in a position to talk to a good lookin' gal but they normally carry the convo (a bit more than the normal girl) and the have their hands on you the whole time. This is going to help you get passed the most unreasonable levels of fear in a healthy, comfortable situation that leaves you feeling clean, good looking and your dignity intact.

2. If you AA is so off the charts bad that you cant even do that, see a doctor about getting some anti-anxiety med's and possibly see a councilor in regards to social phobia to work passed the deeper issues.

The problem with dealing with escorts, strippers or any kind of sexual charged hired gun is the fact that you interactions are *fake, you might get a small confidence boost for the moment but the first time you go out, approach and get shot down...Your going to realize your back to square one and that interaction you paid for, did you no good...Because you didn't learn anything...Everything you did wrong, she over looked because that's her job.

Deal with your problems, go out, try, fail, learn, try again and get better.

Last problem with this, in many places around the world including the US (with the exception of Nevada) Prostitution is illegal, in fact in many states if caught tried and convicted of soliciting a prostitute your considered a sex offender! and have to register as such for life!

Regardless of your goals with PU, relationships girls, whatever...at the risk of sounding cheesy...Your first time should be with someone that wants you. Make it mean something, don't risk STD's and/or criminal charges for a cheap thrill, that long run is going to give you no developmental value.

Good luck

Vitamin-J

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

In most cases, I wouldn’t recommend that a virgin see a prostitute, but some people are the textbook exception. I am talking about those mid twenties, very approach anxious guys who still haven't figured out any way to "get over the fear".

Get your money’s worth. Let her show you how. Ask questions if necessary.

Afterward, stop trying - NEVER try to let sex happen. Don’t just act like sleeping with a girl is the farthest thing from your mind, actually push it out. And wait until she puts herself out there with it. You won’t want it accidentally or casually - that’s the worst way. It’ll be best when she’s sure. Know that she’ll spring when she is.

That's all I have to say on this matter.

lol well put D-man

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

Hey first day here...what's AA stand for?

Approach Anxiety

I'm LAUGHING my bum off here.
If a guy does have AA and is a virgin then pays for sex that would affect his self esteem because he had to PAY and didn't find a woman willing to give him any on his own merit. He would forever walk around knowing he FAILED to find a woman that truly wanted him and the only way to get some was to fork over his wallet. NOT good for inner game at all...

I've locked this post due to the follow reasons:

• - Advice such as this isn't meant to be givin.
  - Hookers is a demaniour to girls who ask a person for a financial agreement for
  sex. Please use the correct term, prostitute as you did in your titel.

Not only do I don't like those 2 things, I also have an opinion about it:

Paying for sex teaches you a lot of things, one of which is that you can buy everything you want. Sex isn't something you should buy, it's something you should earn. That's why the community has called us "PUA's" - Artists in Seduction and the reward = SEX.

On the other hand, you can't go telling virgins that they should do this or that to 'learn' or 'just go with losing that V-card.' That's COMPLETELY unproper behavior & advice.

≠ LD

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