On the weekend I was at Seoul city, about to head back Daejeon (the city I live at in South Korea) by train. A girl I know told she wants to ride with me (she lives in a different city).

That day I sprayed extra perfume on me specially around the neck (I did that just for myself, I wasn't thinking that I want to impress girls). So I meet her in the station and we hugged the usual. She gave the following comment "You smell great", my replay was "Thanks". It got me kind of by surprise. I was wearing a cowboy hat which she liked.

Later on the train we were sitting and then she leaned to me to smell me again and said "I have to smell you, you smell so good today", my comment this time was "At least buy me a drink before flirting with me again", she laughed about it little bit.

Later she was talking about Halloween party which is happening next weekend, 15 mins later she invited me to join and she was suggesting my custom (she wants me to dress like Michel Jackson, since she knows am a dancer and I do have some of his moves).

Later we are watching few videos on her iPhone (we both were holding the phone a hand on each side), my shoulder touching hers. The train reached my stop, while she was pulling away her iPhone she grabbed my thumb (which I guess unconsciously) and had a strong nice grip on it for like 3 to 5 seconds. I grabbed my stuff and hugged and I left.

My question, where do I stand with her? Should I have kissed closed?

thanx in advance,
Mixture

PS: She confused to me few weeks ago that she's Bi-sexual

You should have kiss closed and number closed based on your encounter...and that's at the least. Personally, I think you could have bounced her somewhere for coffee or tea, and then possibly even back home.

Well, there are your "IOI"s, if you may, complimenting your clothes and your perfume is a good sign. You should act on that, when you face it. You can always say thanks, but my tip would be to get into a discussion with her about it. Ask her why she likes it, what other things she likes about you, what does the smell remind her of.. get into rapport stage easy.
Super IOI. You should've taken a greater chance and shouldn't have left her off with that one comment. Tease her a bit more, even better, smell her back and give her a off-handed compliment, if you know what I mean.
Well, that was her excuse to initiate "kino", as they call it here. Here's the rule : Women touching you is NEVER a bad thing. You should've kino escalated back, man. She opened a door, you needed to walk through it like a champ.
I cannot comment on where you stand with her, but for the second question, in an ideal situation if you would've done all the steps right, I think a kiss would be easy winnings.


How can anyone be "confused", she likes BOTH men and women. Unless you're neither it's a green light. Plus, how can you ever not like a bisexual women, is beyond me. Go for gold, man.

Cheers. And Good luck.

JSmooth: I already have her number, in fact she asked me for the number first time we met at a dance event. But you are right I could've kissed closed. About the coffee not possible at that time, cause I reached my city and her city is way after that and it was kind of late and we got to sleep for work the next day.

Don Draper: Thanx for the tips, I was kind of aware that these were IOIs, but wasn't sure how to react on that. Anyway, hopefully this weekend I will be able to deliver better when we meet. And off course I like Bi, she would be a good help to get into three way.

Thanx again,
Mixture