ll give you a quick rundown of the story so far:

We met through a friend on a night out. Instantly hit it off, there was no awkwardness, we danced and shared drinks together. I got her number and planned to meet up on another night.

We meet up with all of my friend and hers. Again get drunk and have a good night. We kiss quite a bit that night and a lot of kino.

We also went out a second time a few days after the above. Same happens we kissed, this time she agrees to go out for some dinner with me.

Dinner date went perfectly looking back at it. No awkwardness, lots of jokes, some lines, constant smile on her face and lots of kino. I take her home and this is the point where I turned into an AFC. I dropped her home, hugged, and had the perfect opportunity to kiss her (this time whilst being completely alcohol-free) but i dont. This was a huge mistake because everything was right for it.

Anyway its all fine, we are in contact everyday then she i go over hers for a few hours but when i turn up she realises she has important uni work to do for the next day. So i say i can leave so she can do it but she says i can stay so i do. But as shes doing work, theres no kino, conversation isnt going so good. We hugged and i left. Now whenever she texts me its always very closed, she doesnt try to keep the conversation going.

I want to get with her, more than just sex. But i dont want to come over too needy. Any advice? shall i grow some balls, call her up and ask her out for drink/cinema, if she bails then i know her stance?

You can either freeze her out or go for the direct answer by calling her. Both are equally risky I would say.

Yea i think i would rather going for the direct answer, flaking is so annoying though

i'd go for direct, its 50/50 you can either lose her and gain her. look at it like this. if you go for direct and gain then youve gained her, if you go for direct and lose her then you can step fully 100 percent back into the PUA community with lots of windows to meet other beautiful women

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Sometimes it works to go back one step - go out with friends and have fun again. Do what you do well, and get into kino again. When once more you are both comfortable with each other, do it right.

I personally think you should just give her some space. Schools seems to be a priority for her, and that's a good thing. Let her be, talk to some other girls, and if you feel like talking to her again go for a direct approach.

thats the vibe I get when I put myself in her shoes.

best of luck,

sam

Yea i think i might go for this and let her come to me. I think she knows how i feel anyway. I might leave it for a while and then just ring her up asking if she wants a drink or something

Problem is i do quite like her