I went shopping to my local store yesterday..i have been shopping there for several years and main reason is for the HB staff members

Anyway I went to the checkout till and saw HB who was about to serve me, she looked at me and wasn't impressed that I had a trolley load of shopping. I loaded up and she immediately said a cheeky comment. I started small talk which using natural game technique with teasing made her laugh etc. I read a few IOI's from her and gave a smile paid the bill and left. I'm hoping that I made a lasting impression on her because I plan to go again next week and this time ask for her number.

Two important points:

1. What should I do if she says no..because I can't stop shopping there its local to me

2. How should I go about asking for her number at the till

I believe the best technique for this is cocky/funny but its not my style I'm more natural game I think

For point 2 I was thinking...when she gives me the till receipt I would look at it and say ''I think you have made a mistake...you forgot to put your phone number down'' or go direct???

What you guys think...???

Do you feel pressured if she says "no"? Why? First off - there's no pain if a girl says no. And if there is - it's only human. Deal with it and move on.
Maybe try first to catch her on her break. Like for something:

[At the till] Hey - you must be getting tired or something. Wanne go catch a break?
[At the break] I have to tell you something - I actually just wanted to ask you out. Or your number - I think you're cute.

That's if you want to do it 2 steps way. Of course you can do the second sentence at the till aswel.
If you think this - where do you think you are then? You're doubtful about what capacities you have. Which isn't natural game and it isn't C&F either. Watch it now . . . Just be direct is good; But do it honest. And not playful. Girls are pretty hesitant towards guys when to do it on a dishonest way.


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If she says no, I'd say: "You sure? Cause I'm only gonna ask you once.."

well firstly theres a golden rule that id advise following and thats dont poop where you eat, the last thing you want is for things to go south then you have to see her everytime you go shopping on the days she works.... besides itl get very akward, but if your looking to take the chance and get her attracted then theres some things you can do that will help, for instance go somewhere you never plan on going again or somplace a little far out and practice your game on those employees to get a feel of how things are, and if things go badly then you wont have to worry about the akward moments of constantly going there, worked great when i needed to practice new techniques.

as far as if you should go direct or not depends on if you can handle social tension well, if so then you can be like "hey i just had to say i think your incredibly cute and id love to get to know you sometime, just write down your number and il set up a timewhen we can hang out", i bet you no other guy shes met in the past couple months has said that to her and it'l make you seem like you have balls of steel, if she rejects you then just accept it and know that you didnt have to waist your time on her and that she did you a favor by giving you more time to meet someone cooler instead of waisting valuable time hanging around with someone you wouldnt get anywhere with.

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Introduce yourself next time, call her by her nametag- ask when she gets off. Simple as pie.

I work in a grocery store guys. Getting a girls number at check out is on par with going for a waitresses number but you get less time to interact and less interactions. In general I would not ask for her number the second time I see her, gain more familiarity and build an attraction after a few visits first, then go in for the kill.

If she works in retail, she can't just go on break when ever she wants, so that point is null and void. They wait for management to send them on break.

I've had customers wait around for my female cashiers to go on break so they can go with them, trust me it doesn't show very high value if you have all this time to be waiting around for them. It usually looks weird and creeps them out unless there is already a strong attraction.

If a cashier gives you her number easily, which I do have one that consistently gives her number to customers, then you are just another "cute guy". You have to make sure that you are different and aren't just another "cute guy" with a few funny lines. They write you off pretty quickly and I'd say the ratio for getting a girls number to hooking up isn't that good, she probably hooks up with 1 out 4 guys she gives her number to. I'd also wrap up because although 1 out of 4 doesn't seem like a lot, in a grocery store you could easily give out your number as a cute girl 8 times a week. Meaning girl probably gets around which is fine but STD free is the way to be.

I do have a second cute cashier, and she doesn't give her number out. Although she'll get a few numbers she doesn't tend to act on them. So even if you give her your phone number doesn't mean it's going to mean anything to them unless you can show them what they get out of CONTACTING you. Even when this cashier has cute guys asking for her number and ask her out she tends to not go for it, she gets shy. This is where building rapport, attraction, and trust come in, because we don't tend to do something unless it "feels" right, giving out our number to some guy we've known for 4 minutes or less never "feels" right. However if you go into a place a couple times a week for 3 weeks then even though you've only had 12 minutes together, you feel like you have known each other for weeks. It's hard to game cashiers unless they are already on the prowl, because they interact with so many people you get desensitized to interaction so it has to seem original and random.

Getting a girl's number is very difficult at a grocery store, you get 2-3 minutes of interaction. How often do you think you have got a girls number after 2-3 minutes? Even if she was attracted.

My recommendation would be to go in a few times, build more rapport, more attraction and then ask for her number. Familiarity makes us like people MORE. So if you wait until she feels she can trust you more, likes you more, and is more attracted to you, your chances of changing that number into something more grow dramatically.

I'd also try and create a mark in her memory so if you joked or teased her about being slow or something, then make sure to remember that and tease her again. Say something like "I don't know last time I came through your line we almost got to know each other you were so slow checking out, just don't know if I have that kind of time right now." You could even translate that easily into a phone number by adding "but if we are gonna get to know each other I'd rather not do it at your work". If you bring back an old joke or if you talked about a movie or music or whatever, bring up another movie or group similar, find a way to continue to relate to her.

My last point is even if you ask a girl for her number and she says no who cares. It won't change things between you guys unless you come on too strong. If you just ask as a let me catch your number a few friends and I are grabbing some drinks you should come along. Or whatever excuse you can come up with. Just make it seem like your just inviting her along and her number is just a minor detail. If she doesn't give you her number no biggie.

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Hey guys,

I also worked in a supermarket for 7 years, and I actually got my now ex but long term girlfriend by starting off talking to her at the cashier, as she worked there also...

There are a couple main things I believe work real well.. well for me.

First of already working in a supermarket gives me my edge for conversation, for example when I go to a cute cashier and she will say something like:

Cashier "Hi, how are you?"

Me "Better now that I've finished shopping, I hate shopping"

(Here the cashier will always have a little laugh and smile, their replies will vary, but usually along same line) Usually something like:
Cashier "Haha oh yeah, yeah I hate shopping as well, I never know what to get... 'or' It takes too long and I always buy what I dont need"

(But many girls somehow seem to love shopping, amazingly) So other times they will say something like "Really? I love shopping, its so much fun"

(I like this answer because I can throw a cheeky yet harmless neg)
Me " Are you serious? What is wrong with you?"

It escalates into a cheeky conversation like this, I wont bore you with the small details, but what has worked in the past is saying along the lines of:

"O.k then, I tell you what, I'll write down my shopping list for next week, and I'll hand it to you, after you've collected all my items, let me know and I'll come pick them up and pay for them... unless you do personal delivery?"

You can't fail with this, and worst case scenario you dont get her number, who cares? First of all you are having good conversation with a beautiful woman, and secondly you will be better for next time.


A few more key points are to choose your day, each day can bring a new conversation starter to the table. For example, on a Wednesday you are not going to ask what they are doing for the weekend, its too far away, instead you are better to say something like "dont you just hate Wednesdays? It's too far from the weekend, the week seems to be getting slower"... etc, there are many things you can say. But on a Thursday or Friday, it is perfect to talk about plans for the weekend, and even the better chance of mentioning what you are doing and if conversation goes well you can attempt at asking her to catch up, (of course might take you a few visits to the supermarket first) Smae goes for Monday and Tuesday, " Oh so how was your weekend? Did you do anything exciting?"

Something I really want to try soon is to have a full trolley and unload your items and after saying hi, say something cheeky like "I only needed half of these groceries, but I could tell you looked bored and were in need of good conversation, so I thought I would help you out (nice smile here)

Let me know what you think of that last one guys, I haven't been able to field test it yet, but first chance I get...

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