I have this perfect girl thats do faithful to me yet i start stupid arguements.
Yes im jealous she has a past and i dont but ive been trying so hard for it to effect me but it does. Shes a HB11, thats how perfect she is, i dont mean to make her upset but i do. Im actually thinking about seeing a therapist.

Anyone else had this experience, any advice would help[/i]

You must first determine where these arguments are coming from…what is causing them?

Are you insecure?
Are you trying to make her feel bad about something?
Are you trying to make her jealous?
Are you angry with her about something?

Regardless of the questions above…none should be occurring with exception of the last one…if she has angered you in some way…talk with her.

If there are just random off the wall fights you pick with her…be cautious…if you really like this girl, she will get fed up with this and leave. Put yourself in her shoes…do you want to be with someone that is doing that to you.

See a counselor…they may be able to shed some light on this behavior. Good luck Bro!

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.

See a shrink for a couple of sessions. He'll give you good advice, and perhaps some chill pills if you need them. They work wonders.

btw, I was in your shoes when I was a senior in HS. COnstantly jealous about this specific guy. She denied everything... then left me. I went crazy. Saw a shrink, she gave me pills. I chilled out, then my GF wanted to go back with me. I got back together with her, but then found out she slept with that guy while we were split. Fucking bitch.

seems like you got a quality girl there man. i used to have this girl who was a "salsa dancer" and used to dance seductively with other dudes all the time... kinda different i kno, but i learned to move on n keep it in the past. Talk it out with her, try not to b aggressive

go see a therapist ..

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I used to be very jealous on occasion. It was helpful for me to remember a few things:

1. My mind makes up most of this stuff that makes me jealous. In fact, it seems like my mind does this on purpose to create controversy and excitement, and to give me a problem to solve.
2. My girlfriend is not involved in a conspiracy to pretend to date me while really being interested in someone else. What a waste of time and effort that would be!
3. Even if I decide to break up, I know she isn't the last girl I will ever like.

It is also important to remember that poor behavior often helps to drive people with good intentions to make bad decisions. Perfect example is Richard Pryor above. (Her sleeping with that guy while single does not make her a bitch, regardless of what he says)

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You seem to do that because of insecurity.
Go have some fun with a couple of friends, build up your confidence, and realise that you ARE better than her, and you CAN live a good life without her.
Realise that, and you will be more attractive.