So there is this girl who I've known for 3-4 years. We've liked each other all this time, but there were some things that couldn't let us be together and sht. We did fool around over those years quite often. Now, when those things are not there anymore, she says that she want's me, that she had missed me etc. But every 4day and 5day she's going out to party, and I'm sure she's not just dancing with girls there.
History between us:
*I think she's really into me cuz she had sent me like 5 letters (like real letters not PM) in which she's all like she loves me.
*She dumped her boyfriend, and told me after few days (recently)
*She calls me on those nights when she's out

I just don't understand. I wan't her so bad! I can get her for one night, no problem, but that's not what I wan't. I wan't to fuck her every night.

So much info to give you. Could write for hours.
In conclusion:
She says she wants me - she's partying very often and having fun with some guys i think
She wants to meet often but almost always something happens and she can't (like some bullshit things)

I don't know what's the best option here...

Forgot to mention that I've been like I'm not interested in us too much.

i'm pretty sure the title of this thread pretty much summarizes everything that women do.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Why?

She's got her life to live and you have your life to live. If you WANT her to be your girlfriend, then why would you verbally express that you are not interested? This is idiotic. You don't have to tell her you like her or you don't like her and don't have to tell her you love her or you don't love her. Just put all that is in your mind into action.