A while ago I made a thread about a hot chick I had a passionate one nighter with. Later I added her on facebook and even some time later I sent her a short message thanking her for a great night and suggested we should meet sometime. A week went by and I thought she'd already forgot about it but to my surprise she had answered now. Nothing long but she apologised it took so long to answer and that she would like that (to meet again).

I thought I was getting better and more comfortable with girls but as soon as I read the message my AFC mode kicked in with full gear. I don't want to get stuck to online interaction with her because I'm pretty sure it will destroy my chances but I'm unsure what I should reply. Of course the purpose is to meet her but honestly I'm crapping my pants now. After I ended a 9 year long relationship (in the summer) I haven't been on single real date, every girl has been a spontaneus thing (been drunk too everytime).

Any tips for if I meet up with her? What not to do to fuck it up? Good idea to go straight for drinks to loosen up the mood? Should I wait replying her and then just suggest a time and place?

First of all, breath.

-Translate the FB interaction to phone interaction.
-Do some texting and phone game. Just get to know each other, and build comfort with her.
-Do not press the sex topic unless you think it's appropriate. Remember, women who have one night stands sometimes get to feel buyers remorse (if she thinks that's the only thing you want her for). Now, some other women may only be looking for more sex, so it's up to you to identify which one is her case.
-Go for drinks once comfort is built to avoid awkwardness. Basically, you're now going to DATE her. You don't have to do magic, just relax, and have fun with her in a non-threatening way. You do that and you'll get some ass the night you meet again.

Just slow down a bit. You'll be fine.

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Thanks for the advice, appreciate it. So I should just shoot for her number then, or give her mine? I've gotten pretty decent with text game being funny and clever (I've learned a lot from here about not showing any needyness) but I'm unsure how good my phone game is. Meeting in person shouldn't be a problem once I get past my nervousness.
My take on her is that she's used to guys coming on to her pretty strong with sexual intentions (I mean she is very hot), I think I can play this to my advantage with interesting convo.

Oh yeah almost forgot, she lives 70 miles from me which is a bit of a problem. How do I set up a meet so it doesn't seem wussy (like me traveling there just to see her)? Also thinking I should hug her right away if we meet? To establish some kino immediately.

I think you should take it one step at the time. First, make sure you GET her number. Do not give yours since she probably won't call. Get her number and start your text game. Once you establish comfort with texting, move on to phone game. By that point, you'll just be having a normal conversation with a girl, so don't worry too much about it for now.

When that's done, come back for advice on how to meet up (if needed). Avoid mental masturbation

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Okay, I'm chatting with her right now on FB but my number closing techniques are almost non-existant. Any tips on that?