I noticed that alot of time I couldn't hold the conversation longer or take control of the coversation and guide it the direction that I want it to go. At time I often just sit quietly and said nothing because i dont know what to said.

I know that the only way to make one-self seem more interesting is by continuing talking, but i don't know how to. If anyone have any hint i'm open for all possibility. I'm not looking for can material, but I do need examples i.e: conversation a is winding down, conversation b, conversation etc...

The perfect example i have is. I'm leaving my old job and starting a new one. I intend to make plan with my cowoker to get together to hangout or go see a movie, but what should I said after that topic?

Talk about the girl you're talking with, and things you like and find out if she likes those things and what kind of a person she is. If she gives you a hard time, talk to someone else, about what was just said, give her your back.

Honestly I could have a girl enthralled in a conversation about me filling lemonade at work.. and I have before.

How?

Pauses, and changing your voice tone.

Mom & Aunt don't count, sorry.