I was at a mma fight wen i noticed one of the ringirls staring at me! as she walked by she did a double take so i made sure not break eye contact and throw her a half smile!! I played it off as cool but inside i was like DAMN!!! this FKN chick is HOTT!!!!
so anyway i do business with her boss so she finds me on FB and Adds me!....... Im throwin sum cocky funny shit at her like im the man and she seems to be eating it up. she eve threw a shit test at me and i killed it!! she sais hey u know that song its a pity u already have a girl?....and I said oh yah I love that song U ever hear dthat one the neighbors know my name?...lol////her response was Oh you're Good! so Itell her slide me ur digits already cause this FB messaging is lame. I cant believ that fkn worked!..
she gave them to me....Im just playing it cool acting like Im THE FKCN MAN! but I really dont know what the hell IM DOING!...im actaully a really shy guy and AM VERY NEW to THIS SHIT and I dnt wanna fck This up!......I dont know where to take it from here Id really Like to F close and be FTFs

If you do business with her boss, two words come to mind: GOLD DIGGER. Beware.

Now, your question involves a complete breakdown on how to be confident, how to be decisive, how to deal with women, etc etc etc...

The first thing you should do is to stop the attitude that you don't want to screw things with her. It messes up with your game. And whether you like it or not, something can go bad at any random point in the interaction.

Have you read some material? Are you used to dealing with women? When you say you don't know anything, what exactly do you mean?

In theory, from where you are you should invite her out, go for a drink, maybe go out with her again, and then get her to your place. There's A LOT of steps in between my friend

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This is the way things work in the real World:

1. You meet a girl and you guys like each other.

2. You get her number.

3. You ask her out.

4. You go out.

5. You fuck.

That's about it.

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bansario yeah goldigger beware was the first response! the funniest thing is dancer girls boss and I have sum major flirting goin on. the boss saw her dancer eyeing me and she totally cockblocked! sat between us and was keeping close to me the whole time so i kinda used that to boost me up in dancer girls eyes!...lol
im kinda new to this PUA stuff but I've been really learning by reading lots of material on here and on Vids and practicing and have had sum good results since i started but its always been with the everyday girl! hb7s and hb 8s on a really good day!.....ive been practicing on the hb7s and 8s so that i can get used to gaming and this hb10 comes a long. So I know u have to treat this a lil different from the lower hbs on the scale so thats why i say I have no idea wut to do.
UPDATE! Spent a lot of yesterday texting back and forth with her and OMG this girl likes to shit test the fuck outta me but I did Good. The sexual tension was really high yesterday as we were flirt texting she said i couldnt keep up wit her in the bed and that she doesnt wanna sweet talk get to the point and that shes waiting for when im ready so i told her right tonight Ur Gonna Frickin GEt it!!!! then she switches up and doesnt wanna meetup after all that talkin shit she was doin.....wuts ur take on that?

Burn what ever it is that you're reading. It must really, really suck.
Really? You were cracking jokes through texts and the sexual tension was so high, you were popping a boner? You think she was working her dildo while TEXTING you? Whooo heee!

You're wasting a lot of potential energy on immature bullshit while turning yourself into a clown. If she goes on stupid tangent, it's your job to go, "Are you drinking already? It's not even 5. . . Any ways, I'm heading to the ______ at _____. Interested?"

Refer back to the real World flow chart. There is no step 2 1/2 where you act like a freakin' 13 year old horny monkey. Get the number. Ask her out. Then you fuck. You don't announce this shit like you're flipping through a porn mag for the first time in your life. Oh well . . .

hahaha kasabi ur hilarious any material u suggest?

^This is the problem. You're looking for materials when you need none. Actually . . . I guess the following could be considered 'material':

Look, a girl who is as hot as you say she is AND has the that type of job only gets hit on ONLY ONE WAY. Guys look at her and whistle. They yell out, "Nice caboose baby! Whooo heee. . ." They yell out, "I'd like to bend you over! Heee haaaw. . ."

How often do you think guys ever thoughtfully ask her out for a fun evening? The way she interacted with you is somewhat sad. This is her history and this is her life. She's a piece of meat. She's only behaving this way out of habit; it's simply how she's been treated all her life and it's the only way she knows how to respond. This is her showing you what she thinks of as her only value. And by texting, she can 'hide' behind written words.

Next time you get a hot girl going off in a tangent, you stop texting and call her. She's going to answer because there are no excuses . . . she's holding the phone, right? Then YOU shift gears and take the clowning around sex topic off the table, and with a serious voice, "You're a nut, lol. Hey, every been to ______? bar/restaurant/club I thought it would be fun to check it out." - Done.

Stop complicating things and follow the flow chart.

nice!! never thought of it that way bro guess thats why Im here askin for advice !!!! never been great with women and was always the fat kid and recently turned that around so now the attitude change has to be made as well.... thx! whats this flow chart ur talkin about?