I was reading some post today, I I thought about this comment I guy wrote saying he loved his girlfriend so much he pushed her away. Lately I have been showing my GF way to much attention, Every time we argue I'm always the one giving in and saying sorry etc... I hate arguing with anyway especially her so I just do it for peace.

I am starting to notice I am doing it way to much and need to back off. I asked her the other day If she was happy or not or would she like to move on, but she said that never crossed her mind, she said she's happy but hates arguing over silly arse things. So my question is How much is to much?

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

If you are the one every time giving in, only give in when you are wrong, you are giving all the power… bad bad bad. I hear what you say because I did the same I just wanted peace. Oh well I got peace.

All those stories in here of relationship going to hell is mostly because of that. No challenge becoming the nice guy.

Good time to step back view less times your g/f if you are arguing on constantly basis.

Again Actions>Words.

In one day she is telling you are the man of your life, the next she is kicking your ass to the curb.

I've been in your situation, what you need to remember is to always have the traits you used when you attracted her, and always have in the back of your mind that you should always be ready to walk away at anytime (this means never take her for granted)

Another thing you should remember is, the standing of the relationship always lies in the hands of the person who cares LESS!

some good traits to learn or to reincarnate are:

-not needy
-laid back
-not jealous
-dominate (sounds like your lacking this)
-don't get pissed about SMALL THINGS!

hope you can fix your relationship before it ends up like my last one!

women love creating drama. stupid estrogen

anyway, if you are in the wrong, apologize, if you aren't don't.

don't put petrol on the fire, just let it burn out. so just ignore anything she says regarding whatever your fighting about.

so she says something, you just say okay. reply with okay whenever she accuses you of something.

Thanks for the reply guys.

I wouldn't say I'm needy or jealous to be honest, She's the jealous one! I'm quite a laid back person, even though sometimes I do get pissed at little things which I think is the big problem. I don't think our relationship is anywhere near dying but I do feel as if I am losing myself which is a scary fucking thought, Yeah I seem to be doing that allot lately putting petrol on the fire I'll just let it die and just get on with my day. Cheers guys!!

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

One way of dealing with this - instead of apologizing after a fight let it blow over.. then make her laugh. E.g. If your not living together, you have the fight.. give it a day or so, wait till she communicates with you.. put your 'funny' self into gear.. if its either by phone or text, wait till you get some good material to reply in a funny manner to, sort of ignoring the fight ever took place, once you've got her happy she may not care less about who needs to apologize etc.. and just want to move on.

This has worked for me in the past.

You're going downhill man. it starts when you always apologize and then she meets another man and looses all attraction to you. man up! let her be the one who apologizes, CARE LESS!

ain't that the truth