Hey there lads, second year of uni here and looking for a bit of help.

So I've been after this girl since I got here and it's been going pretty well. I wasn't going to rush about and go after her hard and heavy, after all, where's she gonna go? Anyway the other night I finally got the kiss, only problem is I seriously screwed it up. She described it as "desperate", and it's seriously turned her off. I know exactly what I did wrong, but what can ya do. Ideally I'd like to start it over from scratch, but that's not happening. In the past I've left things alone for a week or so, and that's helped out a bit, but this girl is getting quite a bit of guy interest, she's very charming.

I was also given the "I don't know what I want" line, which I called her on and told her she'd suddenly have everything all figured out if I was *insert name of male friend she thinks is hot*. This she admitted to, dodging the question with "i dont want to comment on that" and "I told you before I didnt find you attractive" (which I don't remember).

How do I work this one out? I see halloween as my next real opportunity to set things back in motion again, she's a pretty indecisive girl, and for someone she "doesnt find attractive" I've been getting plenty of attention from her. There is something there, she's told me several times before any of this happened. I've not screwed the kiss up before guys so am a little out of my depth here. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Cheers!

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-njames-

Not much i can really say Brah, Other then you say you get alot of attention from her, I'd start treating her as "Just a friend" She'll want to know way and mostly all girls will start to chase/talk to the guy who does that more. And especially if you talkedto her a good amount and she's used to you talking to her alot, slow it down alot and she'll want to know why aswell.

I'd build a bigger better social circle to, get more friends, good looking guys and girls that all have fun and exciteing lifestyles, like partying etc.. and talk to other girls besides her and she'll notice it! That will show her your desperate right? [Sarcasm]

Hope i helped and didnt come off as confusing.

God Luck, and Happy Gaming!

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RAFC , Progress is Great

Thanks man, I shall give that a go.
I'll make sure to report back on what happens
Cheers.

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-njames-

Will do my man, wish you the best!

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RAFC , Progress is Great

Result! Spent the evening round hers. I wanted faster results so I played the jerk card all day and it worked. She wanted to do a little more than cuddle and watch movies, but I decided not to indulge. She's definitely not going anywhere.

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-njames-