I'm quite new to this, after reading the game and neil's next book just to try become a sort of PUA as im still in school it's hard to do this full time. But i've used aspects i've read and they have seemed to work. So here's the situation:

I got this HB9 on fb, i started online sarging her sort of, got her number, arranged a meet 4 days later. The first date went really well, used the 5 questions bet to demonstrate value, did a lot of eye contact just basic things. We then went to the cinema, snuggled for ages and i kissed closed her and we made out for a while. She soon text me as she got home.

I think the possible mistake is that i made alot of AFC mistakes possibly, i continued to text her, and fb message her as usual but was yet to ring her. But from yesterday i thought id try phoning her, i text her first by something i found on the forums by joking around how she may have turned into a cute cat, there was no reply i waited an hour and rang her which she then rejected the call! i text her nearly everyday made her wait for texts mixed it up and stuff. I really do not know where i've gone wrong here, and i really want to see her again
any advice?!

You may be overthinking this. There could a million reasons she ignored your call. She could have been in class or at work or in some situation where she can't answer the phone.

Whatever you do, do not mention the fact that she ignored you. Just pretend it didn't happen. You have plenty of options right? If she isn't talking to you, you're talking to someone else, right? even if not, that's the mindset you need to have.

Personally, I would back off for at least a few days. If she doesn't contact you within a week, I would re-initiate contact with something fun and playful.

excellent advice cheers i will defiantely take it into account thanks!

Here's what you do, and I know this works because I use it myself.

BACK THE F*CK OFF! Don't text, fb her or anything for a few days, as the person above suggested.

Wait it out a few days, keep busy. You may get a shocker - she may contact you before you've even the chance to reach-out to her again. If this happens, DO NOT act all excited as it'll make you look like a lost puppy dog who'd just be found; a sure way to lose all the PRIZABILITY you've worked for.

IF after a few days she's still yet to contact you, contact her. Keep things VERY light, and simple. You can go with the "omg I was walking down the street and such-and-such totally reminded me of you/something you'd said" OR just a random, funnyass statement (this works all the fricken time); you can even include a neg in the statement, something personalized like if she snorts like a pig when she laughs say you were watching WB Porky Pig and his laugh reminded you of her (bad example, but you get the idea). Often I'll make a comment off of some observation I've just made (or made recently), embelish it a bit even make it wacky, it'll keep em coming back for more because they'll find it intriguing/unpredictable/funny.

actually another quick question, fun and playful examples? i currently have run out of ideas how to initiate new conversation like that so basically openers for after i've given it a while

Search the forum there are literally tons of examples. I'd personalize them to her; u know her better than we do, have faith in making your own they ll sound less manufactured. Don't get in long drawn out conversations that end nowhere,don't be afraid to say you gotta run the next time you speak. Have a plan though...so when it feels natural during convo get her out again soon - pretend u asking a friend or whatever-if u make it sound like a big deal she ll detect it (women and dogs have uncanny ability to sniff out fear in others).

thank you papichulo818! i need to know this i think that could possibly be the mistake i've been making alot with most girls, i hit the first area fine but after need to make them want me back brilliant!

Throw some more irons on the fire...limit yourself to one chick and u ll hold onto her for dear life. A good friend of mine gave me this very crude analogy (lol): "old man in prison feels a warm gust of wind on his cock, in his mind it's that from a young boys mouth, when in reality it's just a gust of wind - doesn't matter though be because old man has painted his own context and that's his subjective reality"...wow, pedophilia much?!?

Anyway, if u limit yourself to one girl you fail to take situation onto context. If u pursue others you ll be more confidant, much cooler/chill around girls u actually do like because hey guess what, you've got other options - no longer are you the guy in the desert who finds a few droplets of water and savours each one as his last not knowing if he ll find any more.

you need to have words with your friend about what analogies he comes up with :') aha but i definitely know what you mean and i'll be taking all your advice on board and if it all goes well i'll remember to thank you! haha

It's important that you enjoy it to play the game,
no matter what happends, there we'll be a lot of girls they'll ignore you,
that doesn't matter.

You will hurt 1000times or more, but that's a part of the game.
Don't take it that serious, just take it serious when every try, every change goes wrong.
Enjoy the time when you are succesfully sometimes, get confidence.
Don't go for the HB 9 when you haven't succes with a girl 5 or 6 out of 10.
Just begin with a 5 so you can learn how to play.
It isn't something you have to shame for, a lot of guys can't even get a girl who has a rate of 3 out of 10.

Just play the game everywhere when you get the change to play,
sure that most of the time you try it will go wrong, but you can learn of it.
So when you try a lot, you'll be succesfully sometime!

Greetz!

Da Pua

Your grammar is shamefully horrible.

low and behold she messaged me haha i didn't react like i was excited made her wait a while, now just to see how it goes

Just imagine if you had another girl to pursue at same time and how you'd act towards this one knowing you had options.

will do man, in fact looking at other options as well anyway does make things a lot easier

right, so i got 2 replies yesterday, very random thats all i got. So this is what the fb convo went:
HB "You can't call me barbie anymore:) xxx"
Me "ahh gutted why not? xx"
"I'm not blonde anymore"
"oohh what colour is it now? :O"
"browny blonde"
"ooh nice can't imagine what it looks like though, should i dye my hair blonde like justin beiber? "
now basically i've been given tonight off work and i want to arrange something :') she last replied around half 5 yesterday evening, i'd say i don't reply and wait till she does again but im not sure i it my AFC side wanting otherwise. I know she's at work till 3 today but she can text me while she's at work cause she has previously, so should i text her something light or just leave it, i'm getting clueless here.