Man, I really need to get on here more. I'm just so busy though. Anyway comrades, I was hoping I could get some advice. Why else would I be posting?

So here is the deal:
So there is this HB9 I met this semester. She is ridiculously hot, but I'm not sure how aware she is of it. Anyway, I've been talking to her alot lately and she's even took the first step to IM me, of course this was after TONS of attraction building. So this girl gives me so many IOI's that I can't name them all, and I continue running game etc. So last weekend I texted her out of nowhere "So how do you feel about laser tag Saturday Night?", (I'm aware that I should have not phrased it as a question, but I couldn't think of another way in a text message to make plans with her). She replies "not sure", and we both end up busy that night anyway so there is no follow through for either of us. So earlier this week, after she IMs me (again), I say we should do someting this weekend, she doesn't say no, but she doesn't say yes, she replies "I'll probably be busy this weekend". She sincerely is though. I feel like I've wasted enough bullets on this bird.

So my question is: do I continue to game and build more comfort (where I'm risking LJBF), or do I give up?

And if I continue going for it, how do I make plans for us again?

Note:This is NOT oneitis.

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-Duke

Come on brothers time is a wasting!

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-Duke

likely she now knows that you are intersted in her, and she probobly now knows that you have an agenda to going out with her.

my advice is that you do NOT push this yet. You should have one more good interaction with her where you continue to build attraction. This will show her that you're not just trying to get her on a 'date' or something. and she'll be reminded that you are a desireable male.

then the next time you try to get her to come out with you. Say something like : " i heard of this great Laser tag place, and I'm going on saturday. you're welcome to come. My friend just called me and said she needs to talk about somethign important, so I'm unavailable until this afternoon, but call me after 3:00 and i'll tell you more about it "

if she ditches you or something....you mighta blew it. don't indicate interest for a while, and in fact, if she does blow this off, you could try taking someone else. Then if she asks you later that week how it was, instead of saying "oh i didn't end up going" (then she'll know you were just trying to get her to go with you) you would be able to say "it was great! Jonie and I went and....." this way you'll imply that you're not needy and if she's not availbe, then you're goign to have fun with other women.

that will indicate that you are a high value male, and she'll be much more likely to go with you next time.



hope that helps. good luck