Her: I just don't reply to guysguys with their hand down their pants in a photo on a public website. Not looking for a
hookup and regardless of what you say your looking for....no one will take you seriously (unless they just want a
hook up) with that on your profile. Your mother or if you have a sister I'm sure would tell you the same thing.

So I changed my pics, what do I say back?![/i]

I wouldn't have changed my pics, makes you seem too impressionable - remember this is HER problem, not yours. Never, EVER start changing shit cause a woman criticizes you on it (unless of course you're doing something to really annoy her).

She's tried to paint you in a corner, could be a shit test in the sense that she pre-empted whatever you say your intentions are "...regardless of what you say your looking for....no one will take you seriously".

Her comment is basically an IOD, but you can paint the context to your advantage with the right response.

I'd probably be jocular but in a cute, non-offensive way. You can call her out on her rule of not messaging guys with their hands down their pants - she betrayed her rule in messaging you back.

Maybe something along the lines of "So you betrayed your rule in messaging me...and FB 'hookups' are so passe, but next time it's cold and i decide to have my photo taken, I'll be sure to put my hands anywhere but my pants:D"

She may or may not respond, at least you'd dealt with things with integrity rather than looking like a simp removing your photos to APPEASE and WIN HER over; cut that shit out ok?

Good feedback! I'll let you know how this goes

Just remember, you don't want to change things for 2 reasons:

1) You're making excuses, or apologies for being YOU. Sure it's just a photo but you like it and you posted it - enough said. If a chick has something to say about it, fuck her, seriously. Don't put her ABOVE yourself, particularly when you dont even know her, it makes you look weak.

2) By catering to a girl's wants and desires so eagerly, it implicitly lets her know you're easy to control. Some young girls do this intentionally - my best friend would tell me stories about how in her early 20s older guys would like her, whom she had no interest in. But she'd have fun at their expense, knowing full well they liked her. She'd tell one guy "hey, I love bald guys"...next day he shaves his head; she felt like the guy was a total loser for doing so and even laughed among her friends about it. Just remember these r shit tests to see how sprung she can make the guy become over her, gives her a sense of CONTROL. Once a girl know she has control, and it's completely unidirectional, it's game over - she'll either have fun with you (e.g. get you to buy her things, take her places, do stupid things) and kick you to the curb when done (either she gets bored of it, or finds a man and no longer needs u to buttress her ego), or she'll simply show no interest.